It has served me well, but this colour isn't me any more. I thought of selling it, but as the fit is so nice, I'd want to dye it.
I'm most familiar of ways I can make different greens. This for sure can't be made green, bc it's not blue. How much red is there in it? What else could this be reverted to? Dark teal?
(80 % cotton)
Ok, this sounds sobby now, I'm in a need of personal help. Thank you! I'm an INTJ, and with this INFJ we have pretty similar understanding of things, which usually makes our conversations easy and flowy yet detailed. Ni is a bliss! But I can't escape it that my brain makes everything into too complicated structures. And when it's something a little uneasy but personal, I'm often not able to put things into words the way that would be easy and as pleasant as possible to take in and comprehend.
So I ask for a hive mind's opinion to translate the following into something that would be good for you: "I need you to stop saying hurtful things, because that's the one thing that I'm strict on and I'm not going to be friends if things I trust onto you are used as weapons."
Any restructuring or starting from other pov is ok.
Meanwhile, I could add that I do see open rage or meanness as potentially very good sign if if means rebuilding after lifelong habit of pleasing (those who are never pleased anyways), but having to take that, sharp and personally, breaks me, and I'd need to cut and disappear to save myself. Which is not what I want in this case.
ETA: Based on feedback I don't need to change much in the way I'd normally say it. Good to know!
