I graduated last year in December and I’m thinking of going back hoping to start next year, I know I probably won’t make it this year with all that process just to get in. Is it really possible I’m 23.
Are there any places I can learn Spanish in San Diego for free or at an affordable price?.I’m really interested in the learning the language. I have books and I tried Duolingo but I don’t think I’m learning much.
I’d appreciate any recommendations!!
A year ago I had a chance to move in with my girlfriend. At that time I didn’t think it was great idea because I was just a young adult with nothing to her name and my girlfriend at that time had kinda figured out her life a bit , a stable career her own car and apartment, and a very supportive dad, she was kinda set. And I was the opposite, no drivers license, no savings no better job qualifications just a girl who depended on her mom.
When she asked me to move in with her, I declined even though I was very excited about the idea of me and her finally being together in the same space because we were in a long distance relationship.
We talked about why I didn’t move in with her right away, of course I didn’t tell her about how opposite our lives were so i just told her that I was gonna take an eight month course and once I got my certification and license, I’d move in with her.
I just do not like the idea of depending on anybody and I wanted something for myself too. Like they say “if they feed you, they can starve you too”
A couples months after I started that course, she broke up with me and up to date I still don’t know the reason why.
But later on she had found somebody else.
So the thing is . a couple months ago she called me and told me she wanted to talk so when I gave her the chance to talk, she just wanted to apologize about the break up , which was cool to me , then asked if we could be friends. I doubted that because there’s literally no way me her could be friends we have nothing to talk about.
I kept it cordial but she kept on asking personal questions, she wanted to know if was in relationship with anybody and what I was doing for work. I gave her no answer then she finally said she wanted to take a flight to see me, I asked how her girlfriend would feel about that , she told me she wouldn’t mind. Which I honestly think is a lie. So at that point I cut off contact with her.
A month after she followed me on my socials and I asked her what she wanted she still said she wanted to see me, I gave her no response. She calls me and I always miss her calls and I never bother to call back, she’s always complimenting my pictures on instagram and I just give a dry thanks literally no room for conversation.
At this point I’m just confused as what does she really want because she’s in a whole relationship and she’s always posting happy moments with her girlfriend.
I talked to my friends about this and they told me to entertain her and see what she really wants and I really can’t entertain somebody that long. Should I just block her or stop replying to her. Because her presence on my socials don’t bother me at all, I don’t feel jealous when I see pictures of she she and her girlfriend but I instead I envy and ask myself when will it ever be my turn to find my one and only.