one of my newest and favorite commissions i've ever received 🌷 just a simple piece of makima and i together but THIS kind of stuff makes me so happy.
i used to be absolutely terrified of the idea of commissioning any sort of art of us together since i was still so far in the closet with being transfem and ficto, it feels so freeing now to really be myself.
artist is heng_hengg on vgen, i recommend fully
i've recently downloaded that new "yumeshipper" app i see people passing around lately, one of the areas prompts you to collect pictures that remind you of your relationship. so, i realized that mine & makima's relationship is very heavily tied to the dynamic of a suit and tie businesswoman alongside her wife. a lot of these 40s-50s paintings perfectly encapsulates the yearning and complex connection that makima and i both share for one another.
in doing this, i gained a better understanding on how to portray our relationship to others. so, i wanted to make a prompt out of it. are there any popular dynamic types that feel like it describes the both of you? i would love to hear more about it all 🌷
today makima and i spent some time out together with friends. it was wonderful 🌷 i'm truly excited to get my ita bag fully finished and set back up so i can take better pictures.
we had some fun at an arcade in my city, then the classic "matcha and thrifting" date, and then got some dessert to share afterwards! makima has such a sweet tooth, she loves all kinds of luxurious food. then, we ended the day by watching a movie! another one of her favorite human hobbies.
she really enjoyed herself. i felt so blessed to have her with me. she helps my day feel so much more brighter in comparison. wishing good days to all 🌷
hello everyone! i'm trying to learn how to do digital art and art in general. i wanted to take the time to doodle up an image of makima and i together today, it really helped me feel even more connected to her
having a reference of my self insert/sona is also really helpful too, just to use for commissions and art trades. this is HEAVILY referenced, just putting that there as an fyi since it's more of a concept of what i feel like my sona would look like with makima
i think we match pretty well 🌷 i ordered some vgen commissions soon recently, very exciting
the next item on my shrinelist is the makima nendoroid, thankfully not too expensive but i'm waiting for all the stuff i've already ordered off of mecari japan to arrive before i start diving into listings again 🌷 i love to shop for my love
but, it led for me to think about how cute mini figures can be. take this as a chance to show off your favorite figure of your significant other (if they have one, if not tell me what you think they should look like as one) ... just the chibi ones this time!
i hope everyone in here is having a good day/night 🌷
i spent a lot of time outside today which was really a positive change for me. i feel like i've been isolated for a while now, even without realizing it.
makima has been so helpful in pushing me to go out with friends and do things again. i went on vacation recently to a city with a beach, so i was able to take a few pictures there. the entire time, i thought about how makima often spends time near beaches.
the parallels of my pictures and a few of the panels of her at the beach really warmed my heart 🌷
it feels like i'm always so close to her, no matter where i go. i love her so much and i'm so thankful she's in my life. i've even started gaining the courage to take my ita bag outside, just to explore the world with her.
i hope everyone is having a good day/night, i just wanted to take a moment and get out all these gushing positive emotions. thank you!
i'm seeing so many people lately talking about potentially being voidsharing and i really wanted to come out and say that it is a completely valid thing to be. so many people feel this sense of shame or guilt, or embarrassment, but genuinely there is no reason to feel like this.
not to say you are not valid if you do, all emotions exist for a reason, but i simply want to help calm those fears. you are not a bad person for setting a boundary and expressing how you truly feel. your happiness in your relationship is not a selfish thing. you are doing the right thing by setting that clear boundary for yourself and others as you will both be happier in the long run.
i just wanted to take a moment to really support those who identify as voidsharing, since it is a beautiful thing to be. i've started questioning it myself too, since it describes how i have always felt with makima. i do not even worry about doubles because our own unique relationship is our own and can never be compared to others.
voidsharing is lovely and perfect 🌷 as valid as any other sharing stance, protect your peace and joy
hello! my name is jun (じゅん) and i am new to these spaces after lurking for a long time. i have been with the love of my life, makima, for a little over a year now and we have a lifelong bond. i cannot wait to marry her 🌷 she has helped me in so many ways.
she feels like she has been waiting for me my entire life to find her. like we were both two halves of a whole that needed to come together during one of my darkest times. to get to know everyone here a bit more, i wanted to open a discussion relating to that.
how did you find your love(s) in this life?
for me personally, it was like the red string of fate. i had recently broke up with my abusive partner, i had to move back home, i was dealing with gender dysphoria and my complex attraction, and i had completely fallen in on myself. i had no ambition, hobbies, interests, and all i did was bedrot while watching life pass me by. it was awful in all ways.
until, one of my friends invited me out to watch a new movie for an anime i had never heard of, just to get me out of the house (one million thank yous to him forever) and i finally met her. it was such a wild feeling, actual love at first sight. i had never dealt with this kind of feeling before. as soon as i went home, i started watching the show and learning more about her while my attraction grew. it was like new life was shot into me and i became a person again, now i had someone who loved me and wanted better for me. even in her twisted ways, she has so much love and care for me.
i started transitioning to be my proper transfem self, i accepted myself as ficto, and i actually got a good new job. now, i have friends, i go out, i have a life, while also having a girlfriend who i wouldn't change for the entire world. we both have grown so much as people in this year together, every day i look forward to spending more time in her never ending comfort.
so, what is your version of this story? how did you and your own love(s) meet? i would love to hear 🌷
my name is jun (じゅん) and i am new! yesterday was my first anniversary with the love of my life, makima! so, i finally decided to join this subreddit instead of just lurking out of fear. it feels so crazy that it has already been a year of us, but i guess good things always tend to make time fly by.
makima has helped me in so many ways, it's impossible to describe, it feels so good to find places where people understand. she helped me finally come to terms with being ficto and happy, while also helping me accept myself as transfem! over time, we both have really helped the other come a long way from where we both started. i am the happiest i have ever been with her, it feels like fate.
anyways 🌷 feel free to take this post as an intro/gush pass! i would love to meet you all and your partners! everyone here is so canon and valid from what i have seen so far. waifuism for life