Should my gf and I break up
My gf (27) and I (29) have been together for 7 months now. We got along fairly well in the beginning. We keep having a reoccurring arguments where I am asking for more space and she’s saying I’m pushing her away.
I did note that I kinda am but I’m not sure why that is. I get irritated when she asks me to do things but I think it’s the way she asks. She tells me “you need to do this” or “you have to do it”. I’ve asked her not to and she fixed that. I’m not quick to give up my alone time. I just got my own place, my first place and when we go into the argument because she’s thinking about marriage and she mentioned she wanted to be living with her partner in 2 years. I just got my first place not a year in and I’m reluctant to even consider living together. Not for any particular reason other than it’s my own. I want to experience living alone for several years and to give it up in what would now be less than 2 years sounds horrible.
I like her a lot but I’m not sure if I see us long term but I’m not sure why. Like I can’t put my finger on it. But I feel wrong for keeping the relationship going if I’m unsure about the future.