Hello guys,
I'm thinking about getting an extra job either during the weekend or during the week between 18:00 and 22:00. I have technical IT and marketing knowledge, I'm also ok with cleaning jobs, planning events, administrative jobs, serving at a bar etc. Just nothing that requires me to be up too late.
Do you have any suggestions or are you looking for someone to hire and to help you in some way?
Last year, someone tried to break into my house, while I was there. Luckily, I saw them next to my window and they ran away. I called the police, but of course the burglar was long gone. Someone also stole a bike from my garden a few months after that. This has left me feel unsafe in my apartment.
I live in a student apartment, but I've been working full-time for almost a year now and I'd like to move out to a grown-up place. I've been casually searching for studios and appartmentsfor a year, but I cannot find anything for working people and the few places I find are too popular and I don't even get to have a viewing. Most housing seems to be for students, which was nice a few years ago, but now it sucks.
I would really like to find something for myself or to share with another working friend. I've been feeling really scared in my current place, despite having roommates and I would really appreaciate if you could help me find something. How do you find a well-priced place to live as a working person in this city??
Hello there,
I'm new here but hopefully I can learn from you.
I experience a burning sensation during penetration almost every time I try and I finally went to a gynecologist and a pelvic floor therapist for this.
Unfortunately, I live in the Netherlands and I don't think the doctors here are proactive enough for such problems. I don't have any diagnostic.
The gynecologist told me that my hymen is a bit thick, but should go down on it's own. The pain I experience can happen in area of my V though, so I'm not sure the hymen is the issue here. I've also been active for a long time, so this is definitely odd. I've had pain before, but also had very pleasurable times too.
Now the pelvic floor therapist had 3 sessions with me: one where she just asked questions, the second time she actually did the physical examination and gave me some breathing exercises and during the 3rd time we used dialators while doing the breathing exercises. We could easily insert the biggest dialator and didn't experience much pain with that. But I definitely find it odd to go to a stranger to insert a dialator in me tbh. But the verdict so far is that I need to relax more.
I'm also doing relaxing pelvic floor exercises on my own. And I have a boyfriend who is on the larger side, but he can easily fit inside of me fully. I'm very confused why I feel the burning sensation with him if I'm not really tight and we don't have to force him in. We go very slowly and make sure that I'm aroused, use lube, toys, etc. And I always finish, but not from penetration of course. Most of the time I feel the burning sensation when he moves, but if he stays still or makes very small movements it's ok.
So I'm not sure what this is and how to ask from help from medical professionals. I don't know if what I'm doing is good and if there's anything else I should try. I just want the burning sensation to go away.
What is your experience with this? Can the pain go away?
Hello there,
I'm new here but hopefully I can learn from you.
I experience a burning sensation during penetration almost every time I try and I finally went to a gynecologist and a pelvic floor therapist for this.
Unfortunately, I live in the Netherlands and I don't think the doctors here are proactive enough for such problems. I don't have any diagnostic.
The gynecologist told me that my hymen is a bit thick, but should go down on it's own. The pain I experience can happen in area of my V though, so I'm not sure the hymen is the issue here. I've also been active for a long time, so this is definitely odd. I've had pain before, but also had very pleasurable times too.
Now the pelvic floor therapist had 3 sessions with me: one where she just asked questions, the second time she actually did the physical examination and gave me some breathing exercises and during the 3rd time we used dialators while doing the breathing exercises. We could easily insert the biggest dialator and didn't experience much pain with that. But I definitely find it odd to go to a stranger to insert a dialator in me tbh. But the verdict so far is that I need to relax more.
I'm also doing relaxing pelvic floor exercises on my own. And I have a boyfriend who is on the larger side, but he can easily fit inside of me fully. I'm very confused why I feel the burning sensation with him if I'm not really tight and we don't have to force him in. We go very slowly and make sure that I'm aroused, use lube, toys, etc. And I always finish, but not from penetration of course. Most of the time I feel the burning sensation when he moves, but if he stays still or makes very small movements it's ok.
So I'm not sure what this is and how to ask from help from medical professionals. I don't know if what I'm doing is good and if there's anything else I should try. I just want the burning sensation to go away.
What is your experience with this? Can the pain go away?