u/matcha_latte97

Hello.

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It's raining tonight. I've been feeling low, unable to feel happy and might be burnt out too. Life is too monotonous and repetitive that it's hard for me to find joy in life. That's why i want to try to be adventurous for once. I want to find someone that i can connect with. Of course, strictly SFW.

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Before i tell you about my criteria, I'd like to tell you a little bit about myself.

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I'm from Southeast Asia. I'm a muslim woman who lives in a country with muslims as a majority. So I'd expect to find a muslim man. I don't want to start a drama regarding this.

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Why do i not find a man from my country you ask? Well, probably because i feel that, either the people i met aren't my type or i am not their type. And honestly, looking at colorful hairs and eyes are something that will make me happy all the time. Though i also accept black hair and black eyes too.

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And honestly, i think I'm general in everything, though I'm a bit chubby on both of my cheeks, but my height is 158 cm (5'2"). I'm not white, but I'm not dark skinned either. If i have to say, then I'm light brown? I wear hijab. If that's a no for you then you can stop here.

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What else, oh, i have a bad habit, i might ghost you if we aren't compatible in our first conversation. I'm not good at saying negative things such as, "I'm sorry we aren't suitable" Or even something rude like, "I'm not interested in your look" Because I look at your face at first, so i can't help but liking your face first before getting to know you. So when i don't like it, either I'll be able to muster my courage to say no, or that i just stop replying all together. Bad habit indeed.

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Also, I'm a possessive woman if i feel that we are compatible. I want to keep you for myself. But i won't restrict you from socializing with people though. I'll just be jealous and I'll tell you about it and hope for your comfort (i hope this is mutual)

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I like a younger man, because i think an older man is well, too old? Lol but below 35 is good.

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Also, i want a child or two. I won't have a body relationship before we are legal. So you can expect only chatting and voice call for now. Though I'll do voice call when I'm comfortable enough with you. And video call is a no no for me, at least it'll take a longer time. Though i hope we can exchange a photo when we chat because it'll speed up everything. Like i said, i look at your face first before i know anything about you. So first impression is important for both of us.

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And strictly SFW please.

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And one more thing, I have mental health issue. I have a job though. I hope you also have a job. If you are still a student, then i hope you can find a job after you graduate. I want you to provide for me and I'll also provide for the family too (if we are meant to be a family)

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English isn't my native language. But i can understand normal conversation well.

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Okay, to my criteria:

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- i want you to be taller than me, around 170~ish cm to 180~ish cm.

- i prefer you to be fair skinned, either white or light skin or pale (we have an obsession to white skin here, i don't mean to be racist, just a preference)

- slim or skinny, or general, not too muscular (weird preference, i know)

- muslim man or soon to be

- no patriarchy

- you can be controlling but please don't make me your doll by wanting to change me according to your preferences. That won't be me anymore, and we don't want that.

- please be normal as in, just send me a dm by introducing yourself. Don't send a hi or hello. I want to know you. Make some effort okay?

- have a job

- good at something. Tell me what you're good at, how trivial that might be.

- i prefer someone who likes indoor activities but if you are not one, then it's okay too.

- relocation problem is something that will be discussed if we are compatible.

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Idk what else. Hmm. Well, i guess that's it.

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Thank you for reading all the way to the end. If you are planning to dm me, please give me a sunflower emoji at the end of your introduction.

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The rain has stopped and so is my post. Have a nice day.

As per the title, I'm Nao, sometimes i cover japanese vocaloid songs and just last week magnet -recall- just released on youtube and i want to cover it but need another person to sing it together. Please DM me if you're interested!

Thank you and have a nice day~