u/mcthballs

▲ 5 r/ESFJ

Need Help Making an ESFJ Understand

I just need some perspective on this because I feel as if there is something that I am not seeing or understanding.

I'm an INTP (F) in an LDR relationship with an ESFJ (M). Our relationship is very fun, exciting, and overall good even in LDR; however, there is a recurrent problem that we can't seem to cross and that is communication. We've probably had the communications argument/discussion every quarterly and this point, but while I try my level best to maintain it, his communication and contact comes and goes. He will have days where he wants nothing but to talk to me and then there will be days to weeks where he will want his space, which also means that endearments and even relationship bids will fall off. He also becomes very business-like and straightforward.

It makes me feel as if the onus of maintaining the relationship falls on me because if I don't text or call, our communication almost becomes nil during these periods. Whenever I bring this up, he cites job and study stress, but I feel as if texting one or two sentences in a day isn't much? It becomes a sore point in our relationship where when we discuss it, he doesn't seem to understand what is upsetting me no matter how clearly (in my perspective) I explain it and rather that it's because I have set some "new standard."

Can anyone help me navigate this or even understand his perspective because I feel as if we're going in circles at this point.

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u/mcthballs — 9 days ago

Regarding RTMC Registration

  1. When does the portal open for the August 2026 induction? July or will it be afterwards?

  2. Does it have to be submitted to the regional CPSP center or can it be submitted to any center?

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u/mcthballs — 11 days ago

Queries Regarding RMI (Rehman Medical Institute)

I wanted to ask if anyone here knows regarding the quality of training at RMI, Peshawar. Are there case studies and classes and do the consultants teach during rounds?

How is the pay for residents?

is there hostels for residents?

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u/mcthballs — 24 days ago
▲ 20 r/teslore

The Nightingales and The White Gold Concordat

I was recently replaying the Thieves Guild Iin Skyrim and had gotten to the point when we converse with Gallus. He reveals to us that Mercer Frey defiled the Sepulcher and by stealing the Skeleton Key, Frey also caused the Ebongleam to become sealed from the world, the path through which Nocturnal infused the world with luck.

If we add up the timeline:

25 years ago, he stole the key which would make it 4E 175, the same year the Imperials were forced to sign the treaty with the Aldmeri dominion because they could not defeat them. I think it’s interesting how it’s quite possible that Nocturnal’s luck drying up could have possibly tilted things in favour of the Aldmeris. This would also sort of explain why by the time the Dragonborn arrives, everything in Skyrim is almost in decline, all attributed to things not working out.

What do you guys think?

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u/mcthballs — 1 month ago