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Stealing

I am curious: have you ever stolen money or things from someone? Have you had an experience where another ESFJ stolen money from you?

If you have observed someone who stolen money from you or someone, what was their type?

I know an ENTJ and INFP who stole things and money and morally justified doing it.

I wonder if Fi users are more likely to steal?

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u/SpiceUpTheBreeze — 4 days ago
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Do you regret being mean

i need urgent advice... an unhealthy esfj pulled my friends bag out from underneath the toilet cubicle she was in with her clique, n threw it back over the door and it hurt my friend

for context me n my friend r quiet people who are amazing at our work and stand up for wrongdoings so we havent been mean to her before

i shouted at esfj to stop this nonsense n she responds by copying everything i do ?? she has started acting exactly like me (intj)... suggesting changes n leading things to feel powerful... not because she cares..

i heard she called me a pick me behind my back...

reporting has not helped...

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u/Responsible-Hat2456 — 3 days ago
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Just saying hi :3 Hoping to find some chats.

Hi everyone! (and fellow ESFJ’s). I met someone on Reddit a while ago (who was an INFJ) and told me to take this test to see which personality type I leaned more towards. Well, I got ESFJ and I’m in this sub now to see if any other ESFJ’s are down to chat, see if we vibe :D or I guess anyone else, really. I really liked the person I met too so if any INFJ’s wanna see if we click, that’d be cool too! Yeah, anyway, hit me up if you’d like! :)

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u/Euphoric_Care6428 — 9 days ago
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How does an ESFJ with emotional hypersensitivity think?

Hi, I’m an ENFP and I have an ESFJ friend who describes herself as hypersensitive. She doesn’t know about MBTI, so I wanted to ask you ESFJs: how does her mind work? How can I tell who she genuinely likes and who she doesn’t? Is it normal for her to badmouth people behind their backs? (She’s done it with her friends before.) If she knows someone has hurt you and you ask her not to hang out with them anymore, will she still see them from time to time anyway? And does her being hypersensitive (meaning hyper-empathetic) actually make a difference? It seems like ESFJs are naturally like that.

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u/Additional-Basis-132 — 11 days ago
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Job/Career

What are some of your jobs/careers that you guys are doing?
As a recent grad I’ve struggled with the idea of medicine, was a teacher but it was slightly overwhelming but I love people but to a certain extent! Any advice on what helped you guys, and not holding yourselves back from opportunities but going after things? A balance of dreams and ambitions !

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u/Mbbyline — 13 days ago