How did you pour love in yourself/invest in yourself again?
After 34, almost 35 years of being the hyper independent daughter/friend who has been there for everyone, I've been told multiple times to pour that love inward and am feeling ready to. Has anyone else been through this and feel good about it? How did you start, what helped, what didn't? It helps that I'm in the Bay Area and there's a ton to do and experience - recs in and around SF/Berkeley welcome!