r/SFbitcheswithtaste

ISO IVF help!

Hey! I hope it’s cool that I post this here. I’m going through my second round of IVF and sadly have to pay fully out of pocket! I’m becoming a single mom by choice and really excited but also wtf these meds are $$$

Anyone have leftover IVF/egg retrieval meds you’d be willing to pass along?!

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u/Cultural_Meringue693 — 11 hours ago

Nail salon for *just* a file off removal ?

I’m getting a hard gel manicure this Sunday with a new nail tech and need to find a place that will do just a file off removal of my current hard gel set.

I’m kind of concerned about being able to get a good, non-rushed removal since I’m not going to get a manicure, polish or anything. I don’t want to assume someone would do a rush, potentially damaging job, but I feel like it wouldn’t be much of an enticing appointment to a nail shop.

Any ideas or recommendations? The only thing I’ve thought about is just booking some kind of hand massage upcharge to sort of make it clear ahead of time I’m intending to leave a big tip.

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u/seigefabulous — 5 hours ago

Help! Is this Tender-Nob? Lower Nob Hill

Looking at an apartment, it’s gorgeous. Price is okay. But is this into the tenderloin? Help a SF b decide!

u/ComfortableSpot1064 — 11 hours ago

Where can I get a pretty nice / not cheap or super costumey pirate's hat?

Hi Bitches,

While this may reveal me as someone with questionable taste (vs good taste), I am getting a friend captain's pirate hat as a thank you present. They are doing me a huge favor and this would be a gift that is (1) relevant to their interests and the favor they are doing for me (2) highly entertaining for all parties. However, I don't want something from like, Spirit Halloween. I do want it to obviously be a captain's hat.

Where should I buy one of these? I am also open to recommendations for other forums I could ask e.g. cosplayers or similar.

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u/Li54 — 5 hours ago

The Bank At Amador Membership

Hi!

I’ve been intrigued by becoming a member within The Bank at Amador.

I’m interested in the idea of social clubs and love socializing with/meeting new people.

I’ve lived in SF for 11+ years, starting in college, and would like to meet more people as a lot of my friends have come/gone since. I’ve always thought being part of something like this sounds fun.

For those that are part of it, here are some questions I have for you:

  1. Do you enjoy it? Is it worth it to you? If so, can you expand?
  2. What was your experience like becoming a member?
  3. Costs you pay? I assume monthly dues, but anything else I’m not considering with the costs?
  4. Are there other clubs you actually recommend?
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u/why0nearth — 7 hours ago

Volunteer opportunities that lean social

Hi there! I am interested in volunteering, as I finally have the capacity and time for it again. I also recently moved here and I wanna meet people. The thing is, most volunteering I’ve done in the past- usually mentorship and child focused programs- aren’t great for meeting others. You pretty much get training and then you’re totally on your own! I would like to be involved in the community, whatever is helpful. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated! Thanks :)

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u/Agile-Level9564 — 12 hours ago

Dancing? Older bitches?

Since Outside Lands I’ve been wanting to dance so much more. 55F, love all things afrobeats , EDM, also back into my 80s indie bands again rn. Suggestions? Anyone else out there older and going out dancing?. I know about Days Like This, looking for other suggestions. Also have a fantasy of silent discos at like the presidio or aquatic park or berkeley marina…

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u/oneofthebugs — 14 hours ago

What are your favorite workout classes in SF?

Posted last night about being a beginner who hates working out but seriously needs to, but it wasn’t specific enough to SF so it got removed.

I got some interesting comments about reformer pilates and I did not know about this workout style at all 💀

So that got me curious - what workout classes are y’all going to and where?

I’ve previously been to a HIIT class that turned me into roadkill for 3 days because I couldnt move, so I’m looking for inspiration for workouts I might actually enjoy.

Bonus points if the class has other beginners + has a community vibe! More points if it’s in Civic Center / FiDi area.

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u/OldMasterCannolii — 14 hours ago

How did you pour love in yourself/invest in yourself again?

After 34, almost 35 years of being the hyper independent daughter/friend who has been there for everyone, I've been told multiple times to pour that love inward and am feeling ready to. Has anyone else been through this and feel good about it? How did you start, what helped, what didn't? It helps that I'm in the Bay Area and there's a ton to do and experience - recs in and around SF/Berkeley welcome!

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u/meow_meow_2024 — 1 day ago

How did you begin your fitness journey?

I want to start taking fitness seriously, especially now that I’m in my 30s and in the worst shape of my life.

I’ve always hated working out because I find it hard to stick to it beyond a few months (the muscle soreness after a “good” workout is an incredibly unpleasant experience for me) and now I’m getting a bit overwhelmed by decision fatigue on how to get started.

I’m good on cardio but totally at a loss for strength training.

How did you begin your fitness journey? What kept you going? How do I start strength training? What kind of workouts should I even do as a beginner?

I have access to a decent gym in my apartment + at work. Also willing to pay for classes, personal trainers and such if they arent prohibitively expensive (<$100/session).

I’d ideally like to be able to work out at home for the most part and supplement with classes/PT.

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u/OldMasterCannolii — 24 hours ago

Are too many men stalking this subReddit?

I posted about finding non tech men.

In no time I had tons of messages about non tech men trying to take me out on dates.

I know anyone can scroll subs but a message started on breaking trust just felt strange

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u/Deadbedroomwifey — 20 hours ago

Over the top dress sites

Heyy,

I am in desperate search for wedding guest dresses; however, we are middle eastern and weddings are over the top. A lot of the typical sites like lulus or whatever are a little basic for what im going for. I need sequence or movement or something going on. Does anyone know of any websites or places to look. I am leaning towards darker colors and open to suggestions if anyone has specific dresses in mind.

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u/Ok_Oil_1505 — 1 day ago

Anyone want these? Will send to you completely free🩵

Random but I bought these dresses recently for a trip, ended up getting something else, and am not using or returning them. They are new and never been worn and also in season. The polka dot dress is an XS and I have both the S and M in the teal sequin dress but they fit like an XS and S. If these look like something you would like to wear, just drop your mailing address and I will ship them to you for free. Just want them out of the house but also feel bad throwing them away outright or putting straight to Goodwill! Not trying to sell them or anything just figure one of my fellow SFBWT can enjoy them🩵

u/mlj1990 — 1 day ago

Hi girlies what’s the best laser hair removal?

Hi ladies I’m thinking about switching to laser hair removal, but don’t seem to know exactly what place is best (I’m picky when it comes to self care). I’d love to know what your recommendations are and I’m happy to have found this sub.

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u/Angelic_bitxh — 1 day ago

Good places for a wolf cut?

Hi bitches 💕

I’m in desperate need of a hair update, so I’m hoping to get some good salon recs in the city for a gay-ass wolf cut without bangs. Anyone got a place they like?

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u/lovesprunghate — 1 day ago

Place to donate business/office clothes

I have a large box of office clothes - business formal to casual that I'd like to donate to a women's shelter. Do you know of a place which does this service? If anyone is interested in the clothing, the clothes range from sizes 2-6!

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u/absolutevalueoflife — 1 day ago

Indian wedding guest attire

Hey all! Any suggestions for this white girl (and her husband) to rent or borrow formal traditional Indian attire? I would buy or order online but there’s a 50/50 chance I can go to this wedding due to a medical thing happening shortly beforehand, but I really would love to be ready in case. So trying to keep the cost down too especially since there’s a chance we can’t go :/

Any leads are super appreciated!! And if anyone is willing to lend theirs (happy to pay) you would go down in history as my hero!

Edit - adding my sizes! (Difficult bc I am pregnant and will be newly postpartum)

Top- usually a small, I’m approximately a 34DD right now
Waist - best if adjustable and flaring out because my natural waist may have gone back down to a S-M by then? But I will have quite a little puff on the lower belly.
Height - 5’4 and happy to wear either flats or heels if that helps get it closer :)

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u/wavykelp555 — 1 day ago