Idiot neighbor won't turn her loud ass fan off and now she's trying to publicly shame me and punish me for walking into her apartment to turn it off for her

My neighbor has consistently refused to turn off her loud ass fan despite numerous notes I've left for her telling her how inconsiderate and obnoxious it is and yet she continues to use it and says that she's "renting" so she can't replace it.

Well yesterday enough was enough and during my surveillance of her door I noticed a contractor leaving for lunch so I told him that I needed to go into her apartment. He didn't understand English very well so he let me in. (Probably an illegal. I guess they finally were good for something other than creating a shortage of construction workers.)

I walked into the apartment intent on shutting that damn fan up when she suddenly appears out of nowhere and has the audacity to demand I leave when I was invited in by the construction worker! Can you imagine? I told her I was there to turn the fan off and then she rudely asked me to leave again.

I tried explaining to her that I didn't know she was home and just wanted to turn off the obnoxious fan she forgot to turn off, and she refused to let me do it and told me to leave again. Rude and ungrateful.

Now she's trying to shame me online and dumbass redditors are insisting that I was trespassing so she needs to report it to the police, her landlord, and the HOA so there will be a paper trail if (when) I do it again and that I should pay to have her carpet cleaned after I rubbed mud into it. (I got mud on my shoes while I was seeing if her window was unlocked. Sue me.) They keep ignoring that the construction worker let me inside so it is impossible for me to have been trespassing. I was a guest!

Someone is even pretending to be a defense attorney and insisting they know more about the law than I do. LMFAO.

Am I underreacting?

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u/SafariSunshine — 12 days ago

Let's make San Fran as soullessness as Mission Bay and let the under-represented minorities have their culture of crime in Oakland, as is their preference

I'm very respectful and enlightened so I prefer to leave under represented minorities to their culture of crime. They should be allowed to make their own choices.

But let's keep gentrifying San Fran until soulless as Mission Bay. It's just so peaceful and beautiful, everyone in the city out of the Tenderloin and Bayview should be able to enjoy it. Except those minorities that prefer gunshots killing them to sleep.

Pram.

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^(Sorry to everyone who commented in my original post. I originally somehow only saw the middle comment. Seeing the context changed it enough I reposted it.)

u/SafariSunshine — 12 days ago

Overcame my crippling fear of heights to cross the Golden Gate Bridge for the first time!

I've lived in the Bay my entire life and I've never been able to cross the bridge because I have a crippling fear of heights. (Like I've had panic attacks the upper bowls of arenas before and once even had to butt scoot down the stairs even though I logically understand that's completely irrational.) Growing up with the bridge collapse from Loma Prieta and then the Minnesota bridge collapse when I was a young adult made walking across bridges particularly bad. I can suck it up and drive but walking across and feeling the vibrations is terrifying.

Anyway, this summer I started a goal of trying to find the perfect background shot for a nail polish called Sunset Over the Bay partly because it meant taking more walks and hikes around the Bay looking for the perfect backdrop (basically giving myself a dumb motivator to exercise and explore more), which led to me hiking a lot more (and just hiking x number of miles a week my new motivator), which led to me eventually confronting my nemeses: the bridge and the steep hills right around it.

I'm early middle aged so I realized if I'm not going to do it now, I probably never am going to do these hikes/walks so it helped motivate me.

If anyone is comforting their fears, I definitely recommend focusing on the reasons you want to confront your fear and trying to make it as low pressure as possible. Situations where you can leave as quickly as possible are ideal. Focusing on other things help (I got some nice wildlife distractions to focus on their first time across), or adjust doing it quickly so you can gain some experience of it going okay (I raced back across).

Pics of the bridge going across, the view of Slacker Hill in the Marin headlands, and Marshall Beach from a month and a half ago (the first time I've ever been able to go down something that steep).

u/SafariSunshine — 13 days ago

Will Reddit turn into a dating app if I pretend to kind of be into KPop (but not TOO into it)? If no, what do I have to do to get a date through Reddit?

u/SafariSunshine — 1 month ago

Looking for a co founder to build something big from the ground up. I don't even care WHAT we build, I just want to build something big. Serious responses only.

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u/SafariSunshine — 1 month ago

Can we have a mature conversation about how the lack of attractive women in San Fran is affecting my mental health and testosterone levels.

Credit to u/Odd-Championship-878 for finding this.

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u/SafariSunshine — 1 month ago

Is there a Pokemon thing happening in SF this weekend? I'm not really into it, but I keep seeing videos about it for some reason and now I wanna blow a paycheck on a cool lookin card.

u/SafariSunshine — 2 months ago

How expensive is it to be in a relationship? Should we endure the costs and keep the exact lifestyle we had before we moved to the San Fran Oakland International Bay Area, or should we lower our standards?

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It was just so much cheaper before we moved here. What do other couples do?

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u/SafariSunshine — 2 months ago

Should I give up my absolutely perfect rent controlled studio apartment ($1,850 Hayes Valley, huge windows, tons of storage, claw foot tub, gorgeous) because my commute for the next year is 10 minutes longer than I want it to be, or should I keep it?

It's just such a hard decision that I absolutely could not make on my own so I needed to describe my situation in detail so you can help me decide!

I'm mildly worried about missing out on the campus scene.

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u/SafariSunshine — 2 months ago

I guess I'm cute. I want to come to San Fran, y'all. Join my Telegram so I can come see you! 😁😁

I'm just SO cute and Nashville/Canada is soooo far from San Fran. Help me fund my trip, it's been soooo long since I've seen you!

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u/SafariSunshine — 2 months ago

Which one of you just HAD to bring the Cantina with you to the bridge?

We all love to live más, but have a better grip on your wrappers. Some native in North Beach is crying now.

u/SafariSunshine — 2 months ago