Giving up on my ex
Me and my ex broke up about 2 weeks ago and I’m finally giving up. I’ve tried going to her house, bringing her flowers at her work, texting on multiple accounts, I’ve tried everything. I know all that stuff isn’t okay and I regret doing it because I crossed boundaries. But today I sent her a final text after a week of no contact. I told her I was genuinely sorry for making her feel like she was in fear of her safety after I came to her work with flowers and that I hope she’s doing okay. She told me last week to stop contacting her but I had to say what I said today for myself. To get it off my chest because I genuinely felt bad. It was probably the wrong move to make but I felt like I had too. I wanted her to know I was sorry for that. I asked her today a little after the first messages if she’d be willing to meet for coffee and I never got a response. I’m done I can’t do this anymore. I can’t keep clinging to somebody who wants nothing to do with me. I’m letting go. For myself, for my sake.