How do i tell my partner im aroace?
Me and my partner have been together for almost a year and a half now. I just recently figured out that im aroace spectrum. I been ace for a really long time now and my partner knows that.
My whole life I never really had romantic feelings like others do. When I was little I always used to pick a random person im my class when people asked who my crush was because I never understood the meaning of it, I just thought a crush was someone you thought was cool and I never thought about dating any of those "crushes". And I almost never have had any romantic feelings toward anyone. The only person I ever had romantic feelings torwards is my partner but only some and im not sure if im mixing it up with platonic love. It makes me feel so guilty because I really do want to be the person my partner wants but I know they want a romantic and physical relationship while I want more of queerplatonic relationship. I know I should tell because it wouldnt be fair for either of us if I kept myself in the closet forever. But at the same time im scared of how they will react because when I opened up about being ace they took it badly and got mad. But in the end they accepted. The same happened when I came out as nonbinary, so idk if they will get mad again if I tell them about this
I dont know what to do anymore, if anyone has advice I would be really greatful. Sorry if my spelling is bad, english isnt my first language. Thanks for reading and have an good day!! ^^