
Kamillie, as a character, is a love letter to your youth
There is incredible longevity in Kamillie as a character in any show beyond Gundam or Anime. Many on here have so many interesting things to say about him. His abuse, his emotions, Interpretations about autism, lgbt+ interpretations. Its all part of the many ways we associate with him.
I'm fairly confident i'm not autistic, and pretty straight, but I feel like I can understand why Kamillie is popular and why so many can associate with him in different ways.
Kamillie's story is so raw, blandly terrible parents like his aren't depicted in many shows, sensitivity about his girl's name, violent outbursts, neither do we see his awkwardness often in protagonists. I might be wrong, but I find it difficult to imagine many younger audiences will like Kamillie. I forgive him because I can sympathise with his actions and emotions as an adult. I remember being close in my teenage years to reacting as he has, or atleast, can imagine doing so. Forgiving Kamillie is like forgiving yourself. "is this youth" is what char thinks when met with kamillie's outburst (in the image above). Tomino is talking to the audience here, the tears we see in char is for us collectively about Kamillie's behaviour, the behavour we recognise in youths.
There are so many things written into the show on how he is treated, emma's subtle condecending comments. Char and his hands off mentoring, vs Bright who is so much tougher. Its shows the different ways he is treated by elders. Kamillie also falls in love like a teenager, and cares so much for the people around him. Like I did I guess, he cares more than others about things he perhaps shouldn't. We see his care for others change, when he is forced to confront needing to kill his enemies. He thinks this out loud with Haman and Sirocco, being forced to confront his own ideals.
Tomino could not have forseen these modern interpretations we have of him. Its because Kamillie is so real, and its a depiction not seen in many other shows. His depiction must be a far more broad life experience that fit many issues that go further than what Tomino initially expected. I suspect alot of himself is in Kamillie. Off the success of the original Gundam, he must have been given some freedom. Its reported that he made Kamillie the strongest newtype, so the evidence is there for who his favourite is.
For me, forgiving Kamillie is forgiving myself. I was a young kid, it was ok to care, to not always be how i wanted to be, and react poorly to things sometimes. Given kamillie's power, I too would have fought for what is right, and not always behaved properly, and that's ok. That's why writing such a charrecter is a love letter to things you were as a youth. That is what I believe Char and Tomino were telling us in that scene. The depths of his character is why i think so many on here find him so compelling as I do.