u/minibotcollum

Hii,I’m home alone and decided to scare myself by thinking about horror movie scenes…

So I thought it would be nice to have a little random call. 25+ pls…I’m from Turkey.We can talk about literally anything cats, terrible movies,politics, why humans do the things they do…

I downloaded Discord just for this,and since it’s banned in Turkey,I might go to jail lol, so hopefully this call is worth the jail time!!!

If you’re interested I’d love to hear your little introduction about yourself…

Babaannem 75 yaşında ve demans hastası. Durumu gitgide kötüleşiyor,yavaş yavaş tek başına kalamayacak bir noktaya geliyor.

Bu sub'da bulduğum mekan önerilerinden sonra sıra maalesef huzurevine geldi. Bir aile ferdiniz veya tanıdığınızla ilgili benzer tecrübeleriniz olduysa paylaşırsanız çok sevinirim.

Birkaç yeri aradım,bazı yerler çok yüksek fiyatlar verdi ancak hizmet olarak hemen hemen hepsi aynı şeyleri sıralıyor.Zaten çok yüksek fiyatlar genel olarak maalesef.Devletin olanlarda da bekleme sırası oluyormuş,ne kadar uzar hiç bilmiyoruz süreç.Ankara’nın neresinde olduğu hiç fark etmez, en önemlisi düzgün bir yer olması. Bulduklarımı gidip ziyaret edeceğim ama farklı seçenekler de önerebilirseniz çok iyi olur.
Şimdiden teşekkürler..

I met a guy on Reddit after replying to his post on a friendship subreddit. We ended up talking every day, sometimes spending all of our free time chatting. He was always really nice, respectful, and we had a lot in common, so our conversations were incredibly pleasant.Lost of flirting at times.I felt that because of my religion, he was occasionally hesitant about how I might react to certain things. After a while, I started noticing a bit of a push and pull dynamic, but I figured he was just testing the waters. Still, he remained very respectful throughout.
Around the two month mark, I wasn’t feeling well and told him about it. Right after that, I felt him pulling away. We were quite distant for about a week. Eventually, I brought it up, and he gave me a really genuine apology, explaining his side of the story, which made me very happy. I told him, Hopefully, we can communicate better in the future.
However, I felt like nothing was the same after that conversation. He kept pulling away, taking incredibly long to write back, and he would disappear right in the middle of our conversations. Out of anxiety, I made the mistake of going back to the subreddit where we first met to check. he was, searching for new people to talk to. While he is technically free to do that, the timing of it made me feel absolutely horrible. I assumed he just needed his space, so I pulled back too.
He noticed my distance and texted me, "Are you okay?" I simply replied, "I’m fine, just have a lot of work." He then said, "I missed you yesterday." I didn't want to be completely cold, but I was still overthinking everything, so I just replied, "That’s very sweet of you to say." We talked a little bit about our day, but he didn't text me at all after that, and I didn't reach out either.
The next morning, he sent a good morning text, and we had some casual small talk. Later on, he didn't text me for six hours, then mentioned he was traveling that night. Since I was also going out somewhere, he said Enjoy, and I thanked him. Throughout this, I was responding, but I wasn't initiating any conversations because I was still w hurt by seeing his Reddit posts. I just couldn't bring myself to be my regular, warm self.
That was the last time we spoke. It has been a whole week now, and there has been no text, nothing. I feel terrible because I keep wondering: what if he thinks I was the one pushing him away?because I was different and didn’t take any steps…I am so confused. Please help me figure this out.Should I take one last step to not leave any what ifs on the table?