u/minntmillk

I think it's kinda embarrassing but i need specific instructions on this matter. My boyfriend's size is bigger than i was used to (honestly i had only one other sexual partner) and im having trouble giving him pleasure which is getting me more and more insecure even when I really enjoy being intimate.

Blowjobs are hard cause I keep either gagging on him or doing awkward movements cause im afraid of my teeth scratching him on accident, which causes both of us to be frustrated at the end of it!!

And penetration hurts sometimes, which i dont know if there's even something to fix about that or just get used to it, please help any tips or tricks on any of these matters?