u/mirrorball_2020

I’m making a little motivation chart for the month and want to incorporate no spend days to save more (impulse spender here), and I’m curious what everyone thinks a valid and feasible number of no spending days per month might be. I think it’s depressing to just say don’t ever spend on extra things, but what number would create a goal that would make an actual difference?

Not counting groceries/gas/unavoidables - counting wants/non emergency household items/extra food and coffee/etc.

Edit: I’m doing a monthly gold star print out for goals, so it’s more like a “this many days is the goal and I get to give a gold star each day I don’t spend and I get a prize if I reach the goal”

Ladies I’m fighting for my life and I can’t seem to find anything that fits my size (flatteringly at least) that isn’t a bazillion dollars so I’m hoping someone can pull through for me.

I’ve fluctuated weight so much that I’ve really got an intense bell shape going on, big middle space, and I have broad shoulders. I finally went and did a whole calculation measure thing on myself and turns out I’m a 34-36 DDD/G…which makes sense on why normal things I keep trying don’t fit. Issue is, WHERE can I find something that WILL fit?

I’m not a fan of underwire but also I don’t wanna be basically wearing a sports bra for it to fit. I also don’t have $70 to spend on bras, but at this point I’ll splurge. Please help with any reccs!!