Dating around 30s-40s is only full of desperate men who want to leave a legacy....
What legacy? Most of these can't communicate, they have no intelligent brain. Most of them have constantly been praised for their basic tasks being done (like leaving dishes in the sink). They don't know what life is and have a mom encouraging such behaviour.
Any woman with a thought process is shunned. But you know, your mom (dear men) went through the same producing you and your sister. And your wife. And any other.
No one understands being a mother. I know more by seeing that it's been so scary to give birth to someone who will insult you for being able to birth you, that I don't want one.
Do men understand logic? Is it women who have always been more logical? Men seem more touchy feely than most women i meet. What war would they survive? What do they protect us from? Their own di**s?
Long post. But they all want to leave their nonsense legacy. 'Where are the real men please find me ' was my motto then. 'Now I just say stay away from me' to everyone and I sure seem happier.
As. 35F, seeing how the world works, I'm traumatized and frustrated. No legacy will happen even if you are a genius. I'm child free . I will be (human kids specific, always and forever)