I wrote a letter to my Ringo and he visited me in my dreams
It’s been a little over 2 weeks since I lost my precious little Ringo star. We lost him suddenly and without warning, most likely due to HCM as he was diagnosed as a kitten. There was no warning signs, we just woke up and he was gone.
The sudden loss of him has been so so hard, but especially these past few days. I’m religious, and would consider myself open to the spiritual/paranormal, and I’ve been praying to anyone and anything, begging just to see him in my dreams. All I’ve had since he left were some very gruesome nightmares and it makes it so hard to remember him as he was. Last night I found an blog post from Karen Anderson the pet psychic explaining that cats are very spiritual beings, and sometimes their spirit may stay with you or visit from time to time. Last night I followed her advice to leave a letter and a type of offering in his favorite spot. I asked him to visit me in my dreams and wake me up so I can remember when he leaves, I also left out some food in his bowl and his favorite toys on his favorite window sill. Maybe it’s because it’s been so heavy in my mind, but I finally got to see him last night. I can’t remember much, but I remember walking through the front door of my apartment and seeing him waiting for me right in the doorway. I woke up around 4:30 am immediately after and I felt a very familiar and comforting feeling. Not the cold/burning nauseating dread that I’ve felt for these past 2 weeks.
I just want to know if anyone has had a similar experience, and if you believe our babies stay with us until it’s our time to be together again. And if anyone has any advice on how to handle the grief of a pet, it would be greatly appreciated!
Thank you in advanced, and sorry for any typos.. the screen got really blurry halfway through …