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Hi everyone, my partner is leaving in a few weeks and we are going to do a LDR. We are both committed to the relationship, but I am worried about communication and feelings while being distanced.

I asked him if he was okay with me doing some type of sweetening spell & he is fine with it.

Would it be helpful if we were able to do the spell together, or if he could be a part of it in some way? It’s not really a concern on his end regarding my communication and feelings so the spell is more so from me towards him.

Thanks!

Hi everyone, I’m considering applying to perfusion programs and would love some advice.

I graduated with a 3.8 GPA in biology and have all of the prerequisite classes completed. My main issue is that I don’t have clinical experience. I was originally planning on going the PhD route, so most of my experience is in lab/research settings.

Right now, I’m debating between two options:

1. Starting a master’s in biomedical sciences and shadowing/working part-time in an OR, ICU, or another relevant clinical role over the next two years.
2. Skipping the master’s and fully focusing the next year on perfusion-specific experience, including shadowing and getting a full-time job in a relevant hospital/clinical setting.

Would I have a realistic chance at Fall 2027 admission if I spent the next year building relevant work experience and shadowing, even though I’d only have about a year of clinical experience by the time I applied?

Or would it make more sense to do the biomedical master’s and build the clinical/shadowing experience more gradually over two years?

Any advice would be appreciated!

This is a throwaway account.

I need help figuring out a spell for my situation. My boyfriend moved for me a year ago and has been unhappy in the northeast coming from the South. He has been unable to find a job related to his field and got rejected from PHD programs. He’s been very depressed, unable to partake in tennis which is his life basically, is struggling financially, & has no social life outside of me. 

Due to all of this he’s considering moving back to where he did his undergrad to do a research position there. I know our relationship won’t work if he moves there especially since his ex is still a student at the school he’d be doing research in & is in the tennis program he would join. He’s having a difficult time choosing between staying and going back because we have built a strong and loving relationship, but he’s afraid he won’t be happy here. He’s applying to masters programs in my state, but the deadline is in about a week and I’m worried about his chances of acceptance. He has to make the decision before the end of August.

Neither of us want him to leave and he has consented to me getting spell work done to make our lives easier and stable. I need a spell that will ensure that he stays here, and he will be both happy with me, but also with our (especially his) career/job/hobbies/finances. I do genuinely believe that he could be happy here, but he has been thinking so negatively due to no progress in any avenue other than our relationship growing. We are both struggling so much with the idea of him leaving and he feels he has no other options given his lack of career success and social success here.

I have been interested in spell work here and there, but have never casted anything myself. Any recommendations for how to begin & what spells to do. Also if it would be more powerful if both of us casted together rather than me alone? Thank you in advance.

TLDR: Boyfriend is depressed & struggling career/academically/socially in my state and is considering leaving back to state where his ex is. We both want him to stay- decision to stay needs to be made within a month so urgently need help with a spell for his career success/happiness in my state, him staying here, and our relationship success.