What does it mean if you hookup with someone and they delete their profile after?
Their profile doesn’t show up in the past matches list so I assume it’s deleted. It’s my first hookup ever in life and I didn’t do any research into behaviours until after. But I can’t find any information about this.
During it, we did it, we cuddled, we watched a documentary, we ate, we went to sleep.
I wanted to leave at night but I could tell they wanted me to stay. They kept saying what we’ll do tomorrow. They even said “you could leave in the morning though. No rush” under their breath… it was late though and I didn’t wanna be in a strangers (uber) car at late night. Like I don’t take what they said to mean something because of course, the goal of a hookup is sex and it could be unlimited for the time spent with each other.
When I settled into the bed to stay, they were like “I wanna take you to this cafe, will you let me?” And I was like “yeah” and just fell asleep. During the night they wanted to cuddle (asked me first) and they held me all night while I slept. The cuddle wasn’t sexual. It was literally just them putting their head on my shoulder or holding my arm, or holding me beside them.
In the morning, we woke up, went to a cafe, walked then they got me the uber home. During the walk, they were telling me about themselves and saying “oh we could go here”, “I wanna show you this”, “let’s do this together”.
Before leaving, they were telling me their schedule and asking to meet again and saying I could even come back that same night. I agreed to meeting again another day but I didn’t show enthusiasm so idk if they believed me. (its “set” tomorrow, let’s see if they really meant it when they asked though).
It was my first hookup and my goal was to “have sex with someone new to see what I like” after being in a 3 year relationship.
They texted me when I got home to make sure I got there safely. At the time, their account was still on hinge. But at night, their account was gone. I went to the past matches and it’s not there. They have my number and I have theirs.
By the way I’m 24F and they are 28M.