help a girl outttt
hello busy bees! i was wondering if anyone could help me figure this out 🥲
i’m a southeast asian in my late 20s and matched with a korean guy in his early 30s. we went on our first date and it honestly went so well. after being in relationships that ended badly, i kinda forgot how nice it feels to be cared for in a gentle and wholesome way. he was very gentlemanly, attentive, and easy to talk to.
before our first date, we moved to kakaotalk since it’s a common messaging app in SK. after the date, we kept consistently messaging each other and updating each other throughout the day despite our busy work schedules.
then just before the second date, i opened bumble because i wanted to reread our first conversation to show my brother how we started talking 😭 but i noticed he unmatched me. his profile didn’t say “deleted account,” so i know he’s still using the app. honestly, i told myself it was fine because we’d only been on one date anyway.
the confusing part is… he still planned the second date after that, and it also went really well 😭 but i noticed i became a bit more reserved because of the unmatching thing.
i stopped using the app after our first date because i genuinely liked him, and i’m personally not the type to talk to multiple guys at once.
i also had a previous experience with another guy where he unmatched me after we moved to another platform (and we stopped talking since), and it made me overthink a lot 😭 so now i’m wondering if this is just a normal thing some people do once they move off the app? or should i interpret it differently?
would appreciate any insights, especially from koreans or anyone who has dated korean men 🥹