r/BumbleGirls

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Just need your some moments girls. Can you kindly review my profile, Tell me what is good, and what exactly needs to be changed in order to get more real matches !!

Thankk youu in Advancee 🍁

hello busy bees! i was wondering if anyone could help me figure this out 🥲

i’m a southeast asian in my late 20s and matched with a korean guy in his early 30s. we went on our first date and it honestly went so well. after being in relationships that ended badly, i kinda forgot how nice it feels to be cared for in a gentle and wholesome way. he was very gentlemanly, attentive, and easy to talk to.

before our first date, we moved to kakaotalk since it’s a common messaging app in SK. after the date, we kept consistently messaging each other and updating each other throughout the day despite our busy work schedules.

then just before the second date, i opened bumble because i wanted to reread our first conversation to show my brother how we started talking 😭 but i noticed he unmatched me. his profile didn’t say “deleted account,” so i know he’s still using the app. honestly, i told myself it was fine because we’d only been on one date anyway.

the confusing part is… he still planned the second date after that, and it also went really well 😭 but i noticed i became a bit more reserved because of the unmatching thing.

i stopped using the app after our first date because i genuinely liked him, and i’m personally not the type to talk to multiple guys at once.

i also had a previous experience with another guy where he unmatched me after we moved to another platform (and we stopped talking since), and it made me overthink a lot 😭 so now i’m wondering if this is just a normal thing some people do once they move off the app? or should i interpret it differently?

would appreciate any insights, especially from koreans or anyone who has dated korean men 🥹

Would appreciate feedback

And wouldn't mind women's perspective on what would they rank my profile left swipe or right, and why, like just not what you look for, or something that can be improved.

You can be direct, as long as it's what you think and not just trolling, and not impolite.

Also second picture is of a woman I really liked, what changes can I make to be attractive to such a woman. My only issue with her profile is, she might not be in Delhi/Ncr, and don't really get to know much or anything about her.