u/FixCreative2859

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Guy seems interested but he’s very slow at responding

Started being back on Bumble Date after half a year of break after a break up. And I matched with someone I thought I clicked well with, he sent me a message first and it wasn’t generic at all - it was about something that I had on my profile.

But then his second response was about a day and a half later, and this slow response time continues. Usually it’s after 24 hours, 48 hours max. He does seem interested and is asking me questions back with multiple texts, I think from my side he can tell I am interested in him because I share quite a lot.

Yesterday he responded twice a day which was very generous coming from him but today again - nothing. It’s been a week of messaging now.

I feel like I am stuck, because we have the same interests and seem to get along well, but I don’t want to ask him out first because I already feel like I am much more invested.

He’s also a lawyer and he is an attractive dude. I’d also say I’m conventionally attractive, but maybe he has some other girls he’s more into, I am not sure…

I don’t know what to do, I guess once he replies back I’ll start pulling off. I stopped swiping because I tend to focus on one person even though I am not specifically looking for a relationship, I keep it open.

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u/FixCreative2859 — 4 days ago