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Grindr is the only dating app stock that hasn't tanked in the last 5 years, and its obvious why

It's the only app where a majority of the users are actually satisfied with their experience.

A large majority of users (especially men), aren't getting anything out the app and putting more and more money into non-useful paid features of the app.

For men on Grindr, I am immediately envious of you being able to use a dating app that actually works.

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u/cantwinforlosing34 — 13 days ago

If Clav goes to prison I guess this is a Hexum sub now...

I love his content, those NYC bull runs are hilarious, and his merch is genuinely pretty good. Not sure why Clav never got into merch, maybe he's planning something.

My one issue with Hexum is those teeth..., one of the most socially acceptable looksmaxes there is and the man keeps those gap teeth. His buddy Asher ascends looks even more goofy, with the crooked teeth. At least Hexum has the physique, Asher looks like a random guy you'd see on the street in Italy or Spain.

Either way, Hexum seems to be going up, and Clav gave him a shout out in some of his recent interviews. If the man fixes his teeth, he probably will get some of the same fashion/brand deals that Clav has.

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u/cantwinforlosing34 — 22 days ago

Based on the Fake Tooka Account you think 600 may have been involved in Tooka's death

Someone posted a Fake Tooka account a couple days ago, and the account kind of typed like how Cdai used to, and claimed they were involved with both Tooka and Tutu.

I don't think it was Tay as he talks about Tooka but won't talk about Tutu. So, the only logical person I could think of would either be CDai or Rose

CDai: because we know he was involved with Tooka

Rose: Because he was known for "scoring" (Chief Keef lyric), way before Tutu, Dale, T Streetz, or any of the 2011 bodies 600 is linked to happened. I also know he was close with TYMB where as I'm not sure if Cdai was.

Would also explain why STL was so 600k at the beginning. It seems like in 2011 their two main opps were 600 and TYMB, they wouldn't start going hard at OBlock until after Odee died and they lost Dale and BT.

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u/cantwinforlosing34 — 1 month ago

I feel like the term "situationship" is just a cope for being desired sexually but not desired for a relationship

Everything I hear "situationships" described as is just a friends with benefits relationship. I don't even know where the term came from, assuming social media, but it doesn't seem like its based in reality.

Most "situationships" occur when: one person desires a physical relationship with another, but does not want to commit to an actual relationship. It usually occurs when the one person who desires a purely physical relationship is much better looking, or has some sort of social status or financial advantage over the other.

To me that is no different than "friends with benefits", and I think we should stop lying to ourselves that it is anything better.

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u/cantwinforlosing34 — 1 month ago

Thoughts on walk dates for 1st dates?

To preface this, I mean walking dates in a heavily populated area (urban/ walkable suburbs). Would not recommend anyone in a rural area doing this.

I saw a streamer talking about this, basically his point was that if a girl really likes you, she'll be willing to take a walk and get to know you. The venue shouldn't matter whether its a fancy steakhouse or just a simple walk, if she really is interested. Now obviously, this guy is 6 ft 8, jacked, former basketball player, so he's going to have a lot more success than the average guy at spending less on the first date.

However, my friend who is none of these things (5 ft 10, doesn't really workout although not fat, and not extremely good looking), has had really good success with walk dates. They will walk around the main river in his city and then they will usually stop for coffee or ice cream at a place on the route.

I never thought the walk date was an option for someone who wasn't really good looking, but it seems like it can be done. What are people's thoughts on this?

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u/cantwinforlosing34 — 1 month ago

So Lil Steve had a music video that got taken down?

Was this related to the snippet that got posted here a few years ago? Or something different. Also why did it get taken down? Was he dissing Scrapp?

I saw something about this but would love to hear more about it.

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u/cantwinforlosing34 — 2 months ago

I think a big problem with modern dating is that both genders aren't getting what they want

I know I've seen this countless times with my female friends as we've gotten older and progressed through our 20s. They meet a guy, he's good looking, tall, ripped, and start hooking up with him, he either doesn't stick around or he wants to keep things casual. Now fast forward to 30, those girls either: (1) settled down with a guy who isn't as "high-value/attractive" (2) are still single, trying to find a guy of that caliber to settle down to no avail.

Now for me, and my male friends, we're not hooking up with girls or matching with the girls we find really attractive. In college, our standards were pretty variable, we'd pretty much get with any girl who was willing, but as we get older we don't want to just hook up for the sake of hooking up.
So we go months sometimes years without sleeping with a girl. The male solution (1): settle down with a girl on your level or more attractive, accepting that you weren't her first choice or (2) go months and sometimes years without hooking up if you choose to be picky (me and a lot of my friends), or (3) just continue to have no standards and hook up with whoever you match with (lol I know a couple guys like this)

Now the girls and guys who are still single are frustrated. For the girls, this leads them to "men are trash" / male bashing content, and for guys it leads them to Andrew Tate type of content. Unfortunately, this just makes people angrier and unwilling to change.

I think this is a huge contributor to why so many people are single in 2026, people just aren't happy with what is available for them, and they continue to want more than what's realistic.

I honestly don't know how you fix this, but wondering if anyone has seen something similar in their friends/personal dating lives, and what are your thoughts on solutions for this?

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u/cantwinforlosing34 — 2 months ago

The Fathead hit feels like something out a movie...

Fathead and his cousin walking to the store, strange van pulls up, Fathead recognizes them and immediately tells his cousin to run.

He gets hit, then some dude (either OJ or Cdai), comes out and unloads the clip into him.

If there's ever a Chiraq tv series, this would have to be in it. They honestly could make a series just on 2012 alone: Keef almost gets killed by police, Keef blows up, Durk and Reese get signed, Jojo drops BDK and gets killed, King Von turning up in the streets, Bibby and Herb start to get a buzz. 2012 is easily the most important year for drill.

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u/cantwinforlosing34 — 2 months ago

Who really got T-Streetz? 600 or THF

Which set do you think actually got T-Streetz? THF or 600? I'm inclined to think 600, just because they got back pretty viciously for Shaq, also it was on Streetz day as well. It seemed like it was targeted too because they caught Shaq, MThang, and DRose's sister? coming back from a party.

Will we ever be able to get the FOIA for Streetz? Would be very interesting to see what it says about his murder.

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u/cantwinforlosing34 — 2 months ago

How did the 051 and Lamron beef start?

I was listening to a song with Boss Smooth and 051, and they dissed Lamron heavy. This was before Streetz, Fathead, or Lil Rob died. How did they end up beefing? Was it just because some Lamron guys had ties to THF? Lil Reese, Durk, etc.

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u/cantwinforlosing34 — 2 months ago

Why does Androgenic keep getting banned from Kick?

He was supposed to stream for the first time since the surgery in Australia this morning. He's done some pretty objectionable stuff, but Clav did actual crimes and gets to stream with impunity. Obviously Clav has some connections to some shady characters, so it's probably easy for him to not get banned. Also does Clav not like Andro? I would think he'd use his pull to keep him unbanned from Kick.

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u/cantwinforlosing34 — 5 months ago

Especially in the verse guitar, the overdriven sound reminds me of Little Richard, Jerry Lee Lewis, Screaming Jay Hawkins type of vibes. Would be really interesting if someone made an AI 50s rock and roll version of the song.

Breed to me is the quintessential Nirvana song because it showcases their aggression, but the melodies are so tight. Perfect blend of punk and pop sensibilities.

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u/cantwinforlosing34 — 5 months ago