u/moonzonedout

after 22 months of dating, giving him millions of chances to change , he failed and i can’t keep forgiving him forever. he used to beat me, cheating and micro cheating, talk shit about my caste, my appearance, and the main reason is he was a big people pleaser, he would do anything to satisfy his friends and weed was the actual problem. his brain is totally damaged bc of weed and his friends are the worst. i couldn’t take this anymore cuz he wanted to be a good friend but never cared about being a good boyfriend and i’m on antidepressants so it was getting very difficult for me. i still love him but i left him for our own good. he said he loved me but his actions never did.

my bf is an abuser (physically, verbally, emotionally and mentally). everytime i come up with how bad i feel bc of his behaviour, instead saying sorry accepting his flaws he starts saying “you also did wrong to me at some point”. i mean bro wtf do you mean? you literally choked me to death, how does it even be compared! okay so he cheated, abused and still do it, lied and i’ve forgave him a million times just to get treated like shit every time. what should i do?