Once a Rager, Now a Daycare? My Ashnikko Concert Exit
So, last night was my farewell to Ashnikko Toronto shows. I’ve followed her since the early days, and while I love how successful she’s become, it’s sad to see the community vibe shift so much. These used to be real party concerts— some people got messed up (not all, but some) but the community was so much more cohesive and welcoming. The irony of leaving my responsibilities behind for the night to roll at a show to get some pent up energy out, only to be next to a 12-year-old showing more cleavage than most of the adults standing around! When the parents start bringing the kids to the ragers, the party is over. People waving dildos screaming about sitting on the DJs face? Have to say, it felt odd with so many underaged folks in the crowd compared to previous shows. I tried to dance as I normally would, but everyone was so stiff and only focusing on capturing content. I was next to a guy picking his ear and flicking it into the crowd—couldn’t escape since people were getting mad if you even tried to move around in the slightest. People were being abrasive if you walked for a drink or to use the bathroom—it’s a concert! Movement should be expected. I watched a bigger girl politely pass just to get back to her friends she came with after buying a bottle of water, but that was an apparent problem people weren’t afraid to react to. If you’re in the pit, expect bumps. If you want space, pick seats or stand at the edges of the venue if you bought GA. Ashnikko still slays, but next time, I’ll party at home: Ear-cheese and child-free!