Why fem girlies who also into fem is so rare and hard to find huhu
As a fem lesbian, one of the biggest plot twists of my life is realizing that finding another fem who likes fems feels like looking for a specific leaf in an entire forest. 😭
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It's been years since I seriously flirted or talked to another woman. Not because I don't want to, but because... where are y'all hiding? Every pretty girl I see automatically gets categorized into either "probably straight," "already taken," or "I don't have the courage to find out." HAHAHA.
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And when I finally do get the chance to talk to a woman I find attractive? Biglang nawawala lahat ng vocabulary ko. I go from "I can carry a conversation" to "haha... oo nga... 😃👍." My confidence logs out without warning.
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People think femmes have it easy because we "blend in," but honestly, that's part of the struggle. We rarely know who's actually into women, let alone another fem who's into fems. So most of the time, it's just silent admiration, unnecessary delusions, and me wondering if we're making eye contact... or if she's just looking behind me.
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At this point, finding a fem4fem connection feels less like dating and more like hunting for a shiny Pokémon with a 0.001% spawn rate. 😭
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Happy pride!! luvyall!!🏳️🌈🫶