r/FemmeLesbians

I feel like I often see discussions about attraction between femmes and butches or masc women, but not as much about androgynous women.

I'm more androgynous in how I present myself and don't particularly look girly, although I do enjoy feminine things sometimes.

I've never really experienced that mutual attraction with a very feminine-presenting woman, so I've found myself wondering how femmes generally feel about dating women like me.

I'm aware that everyone has their own preferences, and I'm not assuming all femmes like the same things. I'm genuinely curious, though. If you're femme and have been attracted to or dated an androgynous woman, what drew you to her? Is that a type you're naturally drawn to, or does it depend more on the individual?

I'd love to hear your experiences.

So i’m just curious coz i love how my lace and strappy harnesses look but i keep hearing the toy wobbles in them😭. My fellow femmes who do top here, does yours actually stay put or did you like end up with a second plain one for when you mean business?

Feeling a little extra gay as of late! Just here to cheer you all on with some positive femmeness and remind you to go kiss a girl and have the best day 💕

I’m a Christian and I’ve been out since 19, I’m 32 now. But I just realized how isolating this is. Nobody in my life can actually relate to my situation. Everytime I open up I’m a Christian to my dates, I feel like I’m being judged for my faith, and when I open up to people in general that I’m not straight, I’d still feel that stigma about being gay. I mean, where do I stand? I’m sure I’m not the only one who is STILL a Christian here. So to my fellow believers, how do you navigate this?? I’m kinda in the point in life that I’m this close to just accept that maybe I’ll be just alone forever 🥺

I wasn't sure where to go with this but this might be the best place. For context, I am a trans girl and it took me a long time to figure myself out and get comfortable with ME but I'm still kind of new to all this and sometimes I'm not sure if I really fit in with femmes? Like I love to be perceived as feminine more than anything and to do feminine things and I want to dress more feminine. For myself and my girlfriend and because I enjoy it and it makes me feel great. but I also love Racing and Heavy Metal and I work in landscaping. maybe not things typically associated with being femme? So I'm also kind of confused what the difference is between like just being kind of "normal" feminine and being a femme. any advice would be greatly appreciated. If this is the wrong sub I'm sorry

I know the title of the group is femmelesbians, but is anyone going to object if a femme bi person joins in?