First time home buyer — am i stretching myself too much at $490k? VA loan + 3.99% rate

My wife and I are first-time home buyers, and we’re seriously considering a new construction home in TX
The house is $490k. The builder is offering a 3.99% fixed VA loan rate through their lender, along with incentives toward closing costs/rate-related costs.( $0 out of pocket ) The estimated total monthly payment is around $3,300, including property taxes, homeowners insurance, and HOA.
Our combined monthly income is about $8,800 (take home)
We currently rent and our rent is $2000 and after looking at our budget, the payment seems doable, but my wife is nervous because this would be the biggest financial commitment we’ve ever made. I’m more interested because I think the 3.99% rate and builder incentives make this a pretty good opportunity.
A few other things:
We have a VA loan, so no down payment.
We have some existing car expenses, but one of our larger car payments will be paid off in december this year.
My wife would also have a much shorter commute after we move, which should save us a significant amount on gas.
The house is about 2,850 sq ft and brand new.
We don’t have a huge amount of cash sitting in savings, so I’m also concerned about having enough emergency reserves after closing.
For people who have bought their first home, especially with a VA loan:
Would you consider a $490k house reasonable with an $8,800/month household income and a ~$3,300 monthly payment?
Are we being financially responsible, or are we stretching ourselves too much?
And if you were in our position, would you take the 3.99% builder deal or walk away and look for something cheaper?
I’m looking for honest opinions, including people who think we’re making a mistake. Thanks!

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u/moribundovion — 4 days ago
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BMW - 2016 328i low beam malfunction

Hi everyone, I’m trying to diagnose a low beam issue on my 2016 BMW 328i (F30).
My right low beam stopped working. The dashboard shows “Right low beam malfunction”. High beam is works perfectly which is same bulb but some reason lower beam not working.

What I have already tried:
Replaced the H7 low beam bulb with a new bulb (confirmed bulb is good)
Swapped/checked bulb connection
Checked wire and switch there is no burned marks switch and wires are fine
Disconnected the battery for about 15 minutes and reconnected it
Checked that the bulb is seated correctly.
Checked all the lights fuses.
Used BimmerLink to reset lower beam and still didn’t work.

Has anyone had a situation where the bulb was good but the FRM completely stopped sending power to only one low beam?

I’m trying to figure out the next step before replacing expensive parts.
Could this be:
FRM module output failure?
FRM needs coding/programming instead of just fault clearing?
Bad ground or wiring issue?
Headlight connector/pin issue?
Light switch/module problem?

Would ISTA show if the FRM is not sending power to the right low beam? Is there a way to test voltage at the H7 connector?

I really don’t know what to do from here I did everything I just don’t wanna spend so much money to shop.

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u/moribundovion — 25 days ago