u/mossgirlparfum

My ffs is on Monday. I have been feeling really weak with a temperate and full body pains and aches since Wednesday. I’m flying to Melbourne for my surgery tomorrow and there’s a risk that they may cancel it. The anaesthetist has said we will talk again on Sunday but that if it’s a flu or Covid it’ll be cancelled. I did a Covid test and it was negative. The stress this has put me under of not knowing what the fuck is happening is making me sicker and honestly emotionally unstable. Anyway chat are we cooked or cooking?

ladies, ladies ladies.

firstly dont you dare judge him, the bar does not matter this isnt a game of limbo. I met this guy he's on the other side of the galaxy and i mean yes he hid the fact that he took someones life and fled the crime scene but we've all been there right? literally me beofre my morning coffee am i right? when we talk he is so dreamy and cute and nonmurdery.

dinner is some damper bread struth fair bloody dinkum

hi peeps,

i have ffs in Melbourne next month and long story short i dont have anyone in my life who i can trust/supports me enough to be there while i get through the worst of the recovery process. i am coming from Canberra and was hoping people might know of like a social worker agency (queer friendly) that i could reach out to where i could hire someone to come and be with me for a couple days? im sort of stuck with this as i know no one in Melbourne and no ones coming with me for my surgery so. Any help would be appreciated!

so, basically i noticed sometime ago before starting HRT that i would have these breathless episodes while asleep. id wake up unable to breath. I got a sleep study and i was told i have central sleep apnea/tinny bit of OSA. Then I started HRT and noticed i was having these difficulties breathing during the day and the night. Its like my throat closes at all hours of the day and i need to mentally force myself to exhale or i stop breathing. This has caused my sleep to suffer terribly and i rented both cpap and bipap machines and that didn't help at all. I saw an ENT who looked down my throat and told me i looked good and nothing was wrong. He told me that this could be a result of some of the HRT/meds im on and that i might need to just consider how much i want to keep taking them versus how much i want this problem with breathing to go away. Anyway, i have to now see a sleep specialist which confuses me because i experience a lot of this during the day.

Yes, i have gained a bit of weight on hrt, but i was once 50 kilos heavier than i am right now and NEVER experienced this before. I literally dont know how to fix this and out of fear that it would mess with my ability to recover from FFS, i have postponed my surgery which is not a nice feeling.

I found this quote on the Sleep Apnea Sub:

"the more common causes are a) structural physiology in upper airway b) loss of testosterone/ oestrogen once you pass 40 (these hormones help muscle tone)"

Im worried that this is HRT related? i dont know what to do?

Hi,

so ive been experiencing problems breathing first at night and then now during the day as well. It seemed to start as central sleep apnoea and now im struggling to keep my breath going while awake and so the ENT looked at everything and said it was looking really good and no surgery needed. He has referred me to a sleep specialist and basically told me that bipap and cpap isnt really going to help me. because im seemingly experiencing it during the day so cant really be apnea. I guess im just a bit confused as i can definitely feel somethings wrong like my throats closing? he said i should do a in lab sleep study. thoughts? ive never been so tired in my whole life

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