u/most-holy-bastards

So, for context, I'm a 5'2, 25 y.o transman (been on T for a year and a half)
Height is one of my biggest dysphoria issues. I was barely 5'1 before T so like, that inch was appreciated lol
I have tried very hard to be a proud short guy, and sometimes I have moments where Im at peace with it. But normally I just. dont. That said, it doesnt often out me. Since being on T, I really only sometimes grt misgendered from the back, but when I turn and they see my facial hair/hear my voice theyre like oh shit sorry. Other than that, it is pretty heavily consistently masc terminology.

I am VERY supportive of other short guys (trans or otherwise) And try to hype others up. I recognize that guys can be, and ARE, short. Its just harder to accept it for myself.

Ive seriously debated height surgery but... money and time and pain lol I just was curious has anyone else here done height surgery? Was it worth it? And to my fellow short guys, how do you cope?

Hello! I live in the midwest part of the US, and I have had my name legally changed since I was like. 20, in 2021.

I have recently been getting some resurgence of my deadname on spam mail pieces (like progressive ads and crap) but I had prior to this almost exclusively got mail in my current legal name since late 2021-early 2022. Has anyone else had this problem recently? And is there anything I can do to avoid it?