u/mrbitterman-1979

I haven't spoken to this person in quite sometime, but for some reason I've been feeling his energy/presence around me and most recently an ex of his has friended me on social media. I don't know if these are signs or just noise around me, so instead of asking 'what does this mean' since horary doesn't really answer that. I asked if 'reconciliation is possible'

Querent (me): Leo rising, signified by the Sun in Cancer in the 11th house.

Quesited (him): Aquarius on the 7th, signified by Saturn, which is in fall in Aries.

There is no strong mutual reception between us; therefore this does not support reconciliation developing.
Judgment: No.  

I’ve been going on some dates here and there and have also made a lot of ‘pen pals’ as I call them (basically vampires that never intend on meeting but take up time and energy). Today I asked myself - what is this all for? Part of me feels like; well, I need to stay in the game, but another part is asking - what is this doing for you. So I asked my cards ‘how is dating affecting me right now’

First thing that jumps out is that there are NO love cards.

My interpretation:

Lilies/fox - peace/caution - does this mean it’s affecting my peace?

Fox/tower - sneaky/home life - dating is stealing my security/boundaries

Tower/letter - boundaries/texts - me receiving a lot of random noise from people that will never go anywhere?

Letter/ship - communication/distant horizons - reiterating that this random noise/messaging is going nowhere and keeping me from just being present.

I’d love your thoughts.

I recently started talking to someone but he’s much shorter than me. Everything else about him so far is great but for some reason our height difference has been a major concern of mine. I hate even saying that.

My take, but I’m not fully convinced.

Capricorn rising, so I’m Saturn at 12 Aries.

Cancer on the 7th, so the other person is the Moon at 9 Aries.

What catches my eye immediately is that the Moon is applying to Saturn by conjunction. They’re in the same sign and moving together. If this were a straight “will I continue with this person?” question, I’d probably take that as a positive testimony.

The problem is Saturn. Saturn is in fall in Aries. That seems pretty descriptive of my state. The question itself comes from a personal objection I’m having, so Saturn being uncomfortable makes sense.

What I’m struggling with is how to judge the conjunction. The Moon is literally applying to Saturn in the sign of Saturn’s fall. On one hand, that’s contact. On the other hand, it’s contact in a place where Saturn is unhappy.

The 7th also looks pretty strong. Jupiter exalted in Cancer, Venus in Cancer, Mercury in Cancer. The other person’s side of the chart doesn’t look weak at all.

So my read is that the chart shows continued engagement rather than walking away. I’m just not sure whether the Moon applying to Saturn in Aries should be read as “you get over it” or “you continue despite not fully getting over it.”

Interested to hear how others would judge it.

My interpretation is fish and tower are saying some kind of abundant opportunity is coming from my work or other type of institution/business. Tower and child are likely saying this is a new opportunity. Child and sun are suggesting this will be a successful time. Sun and clover are saying that whatever this opportunity is will be lucky.

I feel like this is a pretty optimistic outlook! ✨

Over the past couple of months I keep seeing common communication themes popping up across all different forms of divination. Whether I am doing the divining or someone else is. I will say that someone I’ve dated almost a year ago has been popping up in my mind so I recently reached out thinking that I was supposed to send a message to him. My message was really benign about a plant that we both bought while we were together. The plant isn’t doing that great and I was wondering if his was doing any better. He never responded to that. I kind of assume he’s with someone else which is fine and also probably a good reason not to respond to me. I’m giving you that background bc today I got another reading that had letter - message - journey from another reader in the reading and I’m like wth. So I asked my cards what the communication theme is supposed to mean and I pulled these cards. I got man - dog - garden - house - woman. I’m a gay male so I’m not sure if the man and woman symbolize me and another romantic partner; but if so then this looks like some sort of good relationship spread? Unless as I mentioned earlier maybe the communication is that I’ll find out this guy I dated is in a relationship since that’s what I originally thought the communication is about. I’d love to hear your thoughts please. It’s been driving me crazy!!!

I feel like things are always hard for me in general.

I’m a Taurus sun.

I’m VERY new to horary so please be kind.

From what I see. I’m represented by Mars, sitting in H6 in Taurus — I’m in detriment. So I’m debilitated by sign and weakened by house placement.

Fortune falls in Aquarius in H3, ruled by Saturn. Saturn is in H5 in Aries — in fall. The planet responsible for delivering luck to me is weakened in the house of pleasure, romance, and joy specifically.

However, Jupiter is exalted in Cancer in H9 at full strength in the house most associated with blessings and higher fortune. Does that make it any better?!