u/ms302826

It's such nonsense...

No one takes it seriously. In 30+ years of life only one person I've ever told has ever taken the fact that a girlfriend I had at 14 (who was almost 18) physically forced me to do it when I verbally said no as something serious that might be harmful to me.

Setting aside the emotional abuse and the cheating and the belittling, it literally happened that I said NO and she put me inside her anyway... And just literally almost no one cares.

I've told partners about it and friends and it's just always been kind of a nothing-burger.

Literally I get more of a reaction to the time a random girl groped me in middle-school (ALSO A PROBLEM OBVIOUSLY).

This woman broke me and laughed at me during a suicide attempt (all later than this specific instance (it's been almost 20 years I'm doing great now)) and damaged my relationships for a very long time.

Seemingly it doesn't matter much because no one can believe a kid got forced by his girlfriend. Apparently it shouldn't matter because she wasn't a stranger and it wasn't our first time. I said "no" and that didn't matter to her, but I'm male so I can just fuck off i guess.

It makes me sad. Cuz I'm doing ok these days and I know my experience was a lot less traumatic than a lot of people here. I just wish it would be taken seriously.

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u/ms302826 — 4 days ago