u/my_life_is_a_sitcom

So original post https://www.reddit.com/r/SantaMuerte/s/DVSUlAMEWS

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After my first helper got scared off because of my altar, I was eventually paired with someone new. Honestly, we clicked almost immediately. Over time I've come to think of her as a friend, not just someone assigned to help me.

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Looking back, I probably shouldn't have worried so much that things wouldn't work out.

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The wildest part is that our relationship hasn't been one-sided at all. She helps me, but I've ended up helping her too.

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My dad has been fixing up his old house because he's planning to move later this year and rent it out. Around the same time, my helper had been searching for a place to rent for over a year and was getting close to giving up.

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Somehow, it turns out my dad's house checks pretty much every box on her list. What started as a random conversation turned into them talking seriously about her renting it. At this point, it's basically a done deal.

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I know some people don't believe in things happening for a reason, but this whole situation feels like one of those moments where everything lined up exactly the way it was supposed to. Sometimes life has a funny way of putting the right people in the right place at the right time.

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Thanks for all of your support and suggestions! It seems I have no reason to hide my altar but I will probably be getting a bigger table for it.

I'm Disabled (relevant Is swear) I have a alter To Santa Muerte, it's displayed proudly in my Studio apartment, but this is precisely what got me into trouble a bit. I need help with my life sometimes, adhd, executive dysfunction, and Dyspraxia all make cleaning hard, and it's imposable to drive, so I have a wavier to have someone come in an help me, we have been struggle for years to get this set up, but the last provider took one look at my display got spooked and ghosted No call no show but finally told my dad no my dad is question if I really need the alter. This is my home I shouldn't have to Justify my connection with anything in it but apparently I do as another Provider is coming by to be my main help and it's been suggested to me to cover my alter or pack it up but again this is my home and the alter i have set up is delicate I would have to remove it and that feels like removing a peice of myself. Help please.