I think I (25F) feel insecure about my girlfriend’s(21F)past
My(25F) and girlfriend(21F) have been dating for the past four months. I love her I really do, I also know that she loves me. She makes me laugh, happy, excited etc. I am geniunely happy when I am with her. She is understanding when it comes to my mental situation and also very supportive. The weird feeling started couple months ago when we did not make it official. Before I explain I Just want to say that she did not make me feel sad knowingly. She would never. Anyway, she mentioned She had girfriend in 2024. They dated for like one year. It was her only relationship. I am not saying she can’t have past. Because I also have a past. And it’s fine. But, I don’t know how to explain but I feel insecure. Even when I talk to someone about 2024 related something different I immediately think about that old relationship. Today something happened and I wanted vent here. We were watching TikTok’s then she saw an account on my phone she looked it and then took her own phone to take a look. The account on my phone showed that they follow each other. But on her phone it does not. I asked who is she, she paused then said my ex. I did not want to react so I let it go. She does not follow her and she was surprised as well. I also don’t know the girl, never stalked or even tried to find her. I feel weird, and also I think insecure. I need help. I feel weird. And I don’t know how to explain this too her.