Why do some men avoid giving flowers even when asked?
I know flowers seem like such a small thing, but for some reason this has been sitting heavy on my heart lately.
Months ago, I told my boyfriend na I’d love to receive flowers someday. Di naman that day agad. I sent him link because he asked where to get one. Was not asking for expensive ones, just flowers. I rarely ask for any material thing in our relationship, it’s not a financial issue because he can afford it if i ask.
We’ve been together for almost 3 years, and I’ve only received flowers twice, both during anniversaries. What hurts more is that after I opened up about wanting them, nothing really changed.
I think for me it’s less about the flowers themselves and more about feeling listened to and remembered. Like something I expressed mattered enough to act on.
I’m genuinely trying to understand though — for people who don’t naturally give flowers even after their partner asks, what are usually the reasons?