u/narcclub

"Happy" Mother's Day, Clusterfucks 🐝 🐝
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"Happy" Mother's Day, Clusterfucks 🐝 🐝

We see you. 🫂

And...legit Happy Mother's Day to anyone in this category trying to do better than their own parents. You're amazing. 💜 💕

u/narcclub — 12 days ago
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every other Tuesday | 8:30 – 10 pm EST | via Zoom

FACILITATOR: Invis

DISCUSSION PROMPTS:

  • Do you experience impulsivity as more emotional (ie, reaction-based) or calculated (ie, you knew the risks and did it anyway)?
  • How often are you aware in the moment that you might regret something later? If possible, give an example.
  • What’s one early warning sign that you’re about to do something that might end up fucking you over in the long run?
  • In what ways has impulsivity worked for you or gotten you something you wanted? In what ways has it cost you something you actually cared about?
  • What’s a responsibility you know matters (or should matter), but you still treat like it’s optional? What are your thoughts about that?
  • What do you think you might lose (eg, emotionally or identity-wise) if you stopped being impulsive or became more consistent/reliable?
  • Growing up, what did you learn about responsibility? Were you rescued from consequences or expected to just figure shit out on your own? How do you see those patterns showing up in your life today?

What is Dark Narc Club?

A confidential, nonjudgmental peer support group for people navigating comorbid NPD/traits and ASPD/traits to talk openly with one another. No pathologizing, no absolution – just patterns, consequences, and what you choose to do next.

Sign up to join/get the links here.

Find your corresponding time zone here.

- Max 😈

u/narcclub — 12 days ago