Should I leave my husband because of my mother-in-laws obsession over him
I am( f) 24 and my husband (m) 30 we have been married for 2 years and we have had some ups and downs
My mother is law loves her son like really really much like getting jealous on some things kind of love
And for past 2 months I have been observing some things like how much she adores her son and how much she dislikes me
But for the past 2 days she is really much
Like she would not let me do housechores in peace and interfering in every thing I do
For example
If I am making sambar ( lental soup ) she wil purposefully stay and guide me like I don't know shit although I am making some sambar for 2 years
Today I was doing some other chore and she was making tea I asked her to make tea for me and my husband but when I came inside she had prepared tea only for him and in the tea pot has less than half cup of tea and told me make tea for yourself I have prepared tea for your husband and gave the tea to my husband
I looked at my husband and he told me she is like that only adjust it's not a big deal
I don't know what to do about this I am really really sick of my husband not standing up for me in front his mother for 2 years now
We are trying for a baby and I don't know if I want that with him
If he can't stand up for his wife how is he going to stand up for our kid on day?
I really need your opinion on this
Should I stay and fight for my right and self-respect or should I leave and be done with
I never talked back to her because I believed it would turn into a fight and she will never accept her wrong doings and iam not a confrontational person.
Now I am realising they are treating me like trash and saying whatever they feel like and treating me like a low life just because they know I will never talk back
I think I have reached my limit of tolarence
Sorry for any gramer mistake english is not my first language
And do share your opinion I really need that right now
I you have any doubt comment and I will explain