I need help figuring out if this is a kink or fetish and if it could lead into a bad relationship with a future partner
So, I think I have a military uniform kink or fetish from my ex. I don’t know when it started but now anytime I see anyone in a police vest, navy uniform, or combat boots I get wet and horny and want them to use me like a personal toy. I never told my ex he probably started this because I don’t think he would’ve bee into the fantasies I was having and currently having. Sometimes I can’t get off without thinking about being kicked and stepped on by a guy in full uniform or grinding against his boots or leg with him staring down at me and speaking to me in a tone that makes me squirm. I’ve told a few fantasies to a couple people and they’ve all told me I was weird or that it would make a relationship be cut short. Is being into military uniforms a bad thing?