u/nillaws

we have only been dating for a month and a half now this literally just happened a few minutes ago and i just want to know if i’m being over dramatic or not. He just asked me a simple question im starting college soon and he asked what day and what time i told him what days but had to look at what times i start again ig i was taking to long and he sent “tell me or ill rape you” he deleted it right after but i saw it of course and now im so uncomfortable and dont know how to feel he says he’ll never do that to me i mean i believe him? but why would you say that to your girlfriend even if it was a joke… please i need advice