u/nishkuPayyan

How do ppl loose feelings

She after spending together 6 months told our vibes dont match, now i am confused & hopeless even if I one day get married will this happen, how come after 4-5 months of best moments of lyf turn out to be no match.
How do ppl try again & again in each relationship where with just one i feel my heart can never be full again. Wouldn’t lyf & heart be fragmented to pieces

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u/nishkuPayyan — 2 days ago

Post breakup insomnia

I(25m) & 23f had been in relation for 6 months. It was all good & fun in the beginning but for the last 2-3 weeks she has been distant. I tried putting more effort & asking Whats happening but she said it’s just exams.

Finally yesterday night she told it’s that she no longer is getting the vibes anymore, she tried last few weeks.
Didn’t argue just peacefully broke up.
This was my first relationship. I didn’t cry maybe because things have been pale for some time.
But I cant sleep, went to gym to tire out today morning, still no sleep. Help.

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u/nishkuPayyan — 4 days ago

Loosing chemistry (25m,23f)

We have been in relationship for 5 months now. I am working, she is perusing govt job. Her exams are coming and she is focused on it. She can’t meet often now. Thats understandable to me but simple things like good nights or emojis or show of love is also vanishing. Kinda turning into a couple stuck in arranged marriage.

Is this common or am i imagining things

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u/nishkuPayyan — 11 days ago

How to deal with avoidant attachment?

My(25m) gf (23f) started kind of prioritising less on us after 5-6 months of relationship. First 1-3 months were so attached and good but now it feels less effort.
She had said at the beginning she is afraid of attachments due to being hurt before, and constantly get upset if my efforts reduced in the first 1-3 months, but now no attachment or efforts from her side

How to deal with this?

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u/nishkuPayyan — 15 days ago