I am genuinely confused
This I can't understand and I know it is something I will never have an answer to and that part bothers me so much more than what happened here.
I just joined a minecraft realm through a link I found on tik tok (yeah I know big mistake apparently wtv) I applied through discord, gave my introduction and was approved to join, they sent me the join code I hopped on and everything was fine at first. I come back to play after a break and find a good spot to build, followed their rules, made sure no one else had claimed that spot, sent a screenshot of the coords to the server and officially claimed it no issues yet. I start building, I gather everything I need map it out and suddenly I've been kicked from the realm without any word from the owner. I open discord, the server is gone, I dm the owner and ask what happened and why I was removed suddenly and they leave and block me. I check tik tok the account is gone, I use my alt to look and it's not gone, they blocked me on tik tok too.
And listen, I know you're probably assuming I'm leaving out details and I get it it makes sense to be sceptical here but I sincerely truly didn't do anything except follow their rules and build peacefully.
And I'm only sharing this because I find the whole situation completely obsurd and again the most frustrating part about this whole thing is that I will never know why I was removed in the first place because instead of telling me what happened they blocked me and left me confused when I know full well I didn't do anything wrong.
So. In conclusion. Even the servers that claim to be not toxic, kind, peaceful, and understanding, are completely full of it. I wish I knew what happened. Thank you, have a lovely day/night/evening or whatever time it is for you.