I’m scared I won’t be able to orgasm!!!
Hi, so this isn’t something I’ve shared with anyone, so I honestly don’t even know where to start. First off, I’ve never had an orgasm, ever. Not even through masturbation. I’ve tried everything from vibrators to dildos, and nothing has worked.
I’m going to see my girlfriend in a month. We live in different states, and she’s been talking a lot about wanting to see me “needy” and “desperate”. But I’ve literally never had an orgasm in my life (it’s something I’m a little insecure about tbh). We’ve been sexually intimate before, but I’ve always taken over, even when she was trying to focus on me and my pleasure. You could probably call me a bit of a stone top, I guess.
I just don’t know what to do because I want to give her what she wants and desires, but I feel like I can’t fulfill that need, and I honestly don’t know what to do. Please send help.