u/notmybusiness_011

what should i do when guys in my cof keep disrespecting me

i met these people just months ago and we vibed so easily since we have a lot of common interests. we are five in the group and there are only two girls, including me. the other only girl is queer and she’s well celebrated among us though the guys are constantly teasing me “when will i also out myself too” and whatnot. they have also become too comfortable calling us lesbians or gay. while the other girl is unfazed by all the names they’re calling us, i begin to spiral into thoughts. i am well aware that i am not conventionally feminine and expresses her femininity in other ways; what mostly hurts is, every time i would defend myself, they don’t take me seriously and think what i have to say is bullshit. i want to confront them in the most drama free manner though i also want to slap them in their faces because i don’t like being disrespected like that knowing my words will get stuck in my throat and resent myself for not knowing what to do.

what should i do?

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u/notmybusiness_011 — 3 days ago