Life long PE, how to fix the psychological ? Really need help !
Hi I’ve deal with PE my whole life, I’ve got all the traumas related to PE, bad virginity loss at 14, balls surgery as a young kid, prOn addiction and more.
I’ve tried a bunch of things, and realized my PE is mainly mental. I can masturbate solo and last as long as I want, but as soon as I’m with a partner or if I see any pROn or triggering images my pelvic floor tenses directly, my vison shorten and I’m in my head, I can’t last and cum straight away.
I’ve been willing to fix this my whole life but never really put work into it seriously. So now I’v seen a sexe therapist, did hypnosis, acupuncture, reverse kegels, breathing techniques… but seems that my mind still can’t rewire and fix this. I’m kind of tired of this and really need to see progress. I’m married and happy with my wife but sexe really is a struggle.
Especially knowing the fact that when we met we fucked so much that my PE went away and we had amazing sex for month. But we were doing it very often, and with the time, having kids now, not so much time for intimacy, PE came back years ago. But I won’t finish the year like this, I want to fix this so bad. If anybody can help I’d be really grateful. Thks 🙏