u/nuggetsdepoulet

Je suis élève en prépa MP2I, mais i'en ai marre. J'arrive pas à travailler c'est horrible. J'ai vraiment des problèmes de procrastination. le volume de travail demandé me démoralise et le stress m'affecte énormément. Je ne continuerai pas en deuxième année, notamment car mes notes catastrophique en info ne me le permettront pas. Je comptais continuer à la base, du coup cette année je me suis pas réinscrite sur le site en p qui a valu à mon post de faire supprimer par les mods... Résultat, ma seule option, c'est la fac ou sauter un an.

Mais i'ai entendu beaucoup de négatif sur la fac et les licences, notamment de la part de mes parents, qui sont mes principaux conseillers sur mon orientation.

Est ce que c'est vraiment une mauvaise option? Notamment par rapport aux débouchés ensuite. Ceux qui ont fait une licence de sciences, recommanderiez vous d'en poursuivre ?

Je me suis un peu renseignée, mais la plupart des sites ne disent rien de plus que "vous pouvez travailler directement ou poursuivre en master", et parfois citent comme exemples de métier enseignant ou technicien, ce qui ne m'aide pas vraiment. Is disent que les choix de carrière sont nombreux et variés mais ne citent que deux ou trois exemples tout au plus...

Est ce que je devrais aller à la fac ou attendre un an pour partir en BUT ? Après l'autre sujet c'est que j'ai pas super envie d'être en classe avec des gens qui ont deux ans de moins que moi...

Après je pose la question mais je n'ai de toute facon pas d'autre choix, vu que ie serai dans tous les cas refusée en deuxième année.

Honestly, I don't think he was really a friend, more of an acquaintance. We'd meet to have dinner together at the university restaurant (idk what to call it) and then that was it. One day he came to talk to me out of nowhere, and we just... Ate together almost every day. We exchanged numbers and all, but we didn't meet at any other time. I appreciated his company, and talking to him was nice enough I guess.

Honestly I knew there was something fishy when he listened to me ranting about random stuff, and said he liked listening to me. I didn't really pay attention, thought that I was imagining things. I was not.

Two days ago I told him I wanted to eat alone for a while, since when I hate with him I went home between 20h30 and 21h30 instead of 19h30, which basically left me with no evening at all. I needed time for myself. He asked me if we could talk before, and then I knew. I hope it was just in my head, but no. He confessed to me, which made me deeply uncomfortable. I said I wasn't interested, which he admitted he expected, and then we went out separate ways. I probably won't see him again and, honestly, I don't really mind. I don't think I'll miss him. Thankfully, it went well enough, he was not insistent and rather respectful. I gave him a definitive no (didn't tell him I was ace, but it was kinda implied. I didn't really want him to be the first person I come out to)

The conversation still felt awful. My discomfort was probably written on my face even before I saw him. It's the second time I get confessed to this (school) year. Also the second time in my life, but it's two times too much. The first time (well, not really a confession, but he did ask me out) was from one of my (actual, this time) friend. I didn't give him a clear answer (i wasn't sure, and at the time i didn't know i was ace), and we just never adressed it again. I don't know if I should, but it makes me uncomfortable. We're still friends and hang out often enough. He said he was okay with staying friends so I think that's fine.

Back to the other guy. Honestly, I can't help thinking that we both wasted our time. I went home super late everyday after chatting with him, that probably had an impact on my studies (already not that great) and while I liked chatting with him, I went with him mostly because I can't say no. He broke my routine (which I can allow, but it was starting to get too much) which i didn't take really well. I can't say I'm not relieved not to see him again.

So yeah, it does feel like a waste of time for the both of us. I'm kind mad he didn't tell me sooner, it'd have saved a lot of time. Especially if he already figured I wasn't interested. Because I certainly wasn't sure of his intentions, even if I had some suspicions.

Sorry, this is just me venting to the wind, but i had to take this off my chest.

J'ai tendance à pas mal observer les gens dans la rue, et parfois je vois des filles avec un style vestimentaire / coupe de cheveux assez particuliers ou que je trouve extrêmement classes, mais je ne sais pas si ce serait malpoli ou déplacé de les aborder pour leur dire que je les trouve super classes.

D'un côté je me dis qu'un petit compliment c'est toujours sympa, mais de l'autre, celles avec un style particulier doivent se prendre des remarques à longueur de journée. Ou juste que de se faire arrêter dans la rue par une inconnue c'est juste chiant... J'aimerais éviter autant que possible de mettre des filles mal à l'aise.

Je suis à préciser que je suis moi-même une fille, juste que je ressemble à rien (je m'habille chez décathlon) donc je sais pas vraiment ce que peux resentir une fille qui se fait complimenter de nulle part.