u/octaviachinaski

This guy asked me out two or three times, and every single time he had some kind of problem and disappeared right when we were supposed to meet. Now, after more than a year, he reached out to me again.
I decided to ask the cards about it. My first question was whether I should go out with him again and give him another chance? My second question was why he always disappeared whenever we made plans to go out?

So, my toughts:
1. Should I go out with him again?
I understood the cards as showing a new opportunity, but with caution. Presente + Bambino suggest a fresh start, while Donna Maritata could represent the relationship situation he had at the time. Ladro makes me wary of the pattern of him offering something and then taking it away. So I’d say: you can give him an opening, but pay attention to his actions before trusting him again.

2. Why did he disappear?
I understood that there was a real obstacle in his life (La Nemica), and that he enjoyed the conversations and the connection (Gran Consolazione + Conversazione), but this ended up creating frustration and unfulfilled expectations (Dispiacere + Sospiri). Falsità feels more like an inconsistency between what he said and what he did, rather than necessarily meaning that he lied about everything.

Could you guys help me interpret the readings? What do u guys think?

im a beginner and i like to ask some questions to practice. today i asked if my dog likes the new house because he crys a lot, but he is a really anxious dog and cry even with the long daily walks, but in this new house is more often. so i understood that he loved the house but he keeps anxious because is how he is? or it is like he missing the old house? like he is sad because he loved the old house or is the first thing? what do u think?

(p.s. i’m impressed how literal sibilla is!! how it gave me exactly the Casa card when im asking about the house hahah)

edit 1: now im thinking that he really misses the old house… it was like a farm and now we’re in the city.
i didn’t knew that the spread had like “past present and future”, that helps me a lot!