u/okok25555

Testosterone & Posterior Urethroplasty - 27 y/o Male

I will be 27 years old tomorrow, I was in a bad wreck August 17th 2024. Broke my pelvis all up, cracked some bones in my lower back (I can’t remember which ones), caused alot of internal bleeding and most of all, tore my urethra in half.
I had surgeries on my Pelvis and Bladder right off the bat, but had to wait 4 months for Posterior Urethroplasty. December 18th I had Posterior Urethroplasty and it was not a great experience. All I can say is that I can urinate now. My sexual functions of my Penis have changed an insane amount (ED, and a significant Loss of Length). I have went to the doctor many times about the ED and not feeling worth a shit and they all just kind of laugh and write it off. So, it’s almost been two years that I have absolutely had no ambition or drive. Raging ED, (Penis will not fully get hard, like it will get sort of stiff but not much blood like before)
I have been taking Cialis pretty much since the surgery (Daily and when I want to have intercourse with my wife).

I had my test levels checked 2 times and the doctors said that I was fine, that it was going to take some time (420ng/dl & 640 ng/dl)
I am in a massive depression, I have zero drive and can’t get a good erection to save my life.
The doctors all write me off from trying something testosterone related I guess because I’m so young? Just seems like they think it’s a joke but I am fucking struggling bad.

I just recently got my wife pregnant, and now that she’s pregnant I would like to try anything possible to feel better.

Could someone please point me in the right direction? Doctors , Nurses, Healers, Anybody?

I am struggling so bad right now, I had to go recently and get put on anxiety medication because I don’t know what else to do, I couldn’t control the anxiety and worry. It is killing me.

I was a very ambitious person and I really do have a good life, but something is not right with me and it hasn’t been since the wreck. I think it’s Testosterone related, but I’m not sure. I want to get some testosterone from someone I know, just to try it and see if it makes me feel better but I am extremely scared.

All I am asking is for some help, and a nudge in the right direction because it seems like no one is here to help.

To add: I don’t drink or smoke or anything that could be affecting it. Not that it has anything to do with it. I would just like to be able to enjoy my life again because it’s been almost 2 miserable years

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