u/olive_mae00

I am late diagnosed Audhd. I’m in my 30’s, I have a job, car, and kids. I take care of my household (pay all the bills, groceries, appointments) I’m responsible. I don’t drink or do anything illegal or reckless. But my family (and some non family like my boss) treats me like a child. The comment on the way I dress, or the decisions I make. They constantly push boundaries and just straight up ignore my wants/needs. I will get talked over etc and when I finally snap and raise my voice to be heard, when I finally speak up for myself….I’m the bad guy. Am I just surrounded by narcissists, insecure people? How can I keep my peace?